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I am sorry but I need some clarification...every where I have read on the Internet on Herpes seems to contradict what i have just read in your post

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Types of Herpes

The two types of herpes viruses we will be concerned about are HSV-1 and HSV-2. They are basically the same virus with the type-1 outbreaks appearing most commonly about the mouth and the type-2 affecting the genital or vaginal area. However each type can appear in either location. Once infected by herpes, warning sign or symptoms (prodrome) will appear signaling the onset of an outbreak.

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blue%20nice%20arrows.gifHow is herpes spread?

Direct contact with the live virus including:

  • Any direct contact with an herpes infection
  • Kissing, touching or caressing actively infected areas
  • Sexual contact (vaginal, oral, or anal sex)
  • Cold sores or mouth herpes can be spread by sharing the same drinking glass, lipstick, cigarette, etc.

Herpes can be spread by any of the following real-life situations:

blue%20nice%20arrows.gif Kissing someone if you have a cold sore can transfer the virus to any part of the body that you kiss them (including inside of the mouth and throat, or the genitals)

blue%20nice%20arrows.gif The virus can be transmitted to your partner if you have active genital herpes and have vaginal or anal intercourse

blue%20nice%20arrows.gif If you have a cold sore and put your mouth on your partner's genitals (oral sex), your partner can be infected with genital herpes. Consequently, oral sex should definitely be avoided if one partner has a facial herpes attack.

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hopingseeking Established Member

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Thanks for the reminder fallen..

I reread stupid's post, and realized I had assumed she had HSV2 genitally.

Taking that assumption, if she has HSV2 genitally, then if she gave her boyfriend oral sex, he could not get herpes from her.

However, if she has HSV2 orally, then if she gave her boyfriend oral sex, she could transmit the herpes virus to his genitals. However, the incidence of HSV2 orally is low, so I'm guessing that she is of the former situation.

Hope that's clearer!

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