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My first ob was in 2002 and that was the last one I had. I told my recent bf that I had it and explained to him the precautions etc. but today he told me that he found two bumps on his genitals. I was completely devastated because this time it totally bypassed me. I feel horrible even though we knew the risks we were taking. Has anyone here passed it on to thier partner? If so, how did you react or cope?

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I'm sorry :( It must feel terrible to give this to someone you care about. I haven't had the "chance" to pass it on, but I would say that since you were upfront with him about the risks... it was his choice. At least he had a choice though. I didn't for one, and many others here can say the same thing.

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so I take it you had no visible symptoms when he got it from you? did you use protection? just wondering. Stinks that happened, Im sorry he got this. It must be hard to find this out, but hopefully things will work out between you guys anyhow and since he decided to take the risk, try not to feel so bad....you told him and both made an informed decision to proceed.

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