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devestatedamy18

I thought i was never going to find someone

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devestatedamy18

When i first found out i had gh about 5 months ago i was completly broken i honestly gave up on life! Btw how the heck can u change ur name on this??? Well I'm not completly come to terms with it but on my search for actual people close to.my area i decided to try one of those online dating websites-strictly looking for friends.

Well i started talkin to a guy and in less than a month-we both can't belive how quickly we started liking each other. We havent even met face to face yet(hopefully this weekend:D) The special thing about this is that we've learned to like each other for ourselves. Its nothing physical. Yet i truley care about him and he says he feels the same and he's one of those guys who really does not deserve this(his ex cheated on him)

honestly i had kinda resigned myself that after this i wld b alone forever -no one wld want me once they knew i was sick. But he himself is sick he knows what its like to b in my shoes and its so great to b understood!!! I had my first ob since i was diagnosed recently and he did not let me get down about it. He gives me so much support and hope i really hope that when we finally meet face to face that the connection we feel over the phone is there as well :) i kno this is kinda sappy and we're both afraid of getting ahead of ourselves but the connection is there!

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FML123

omg you gave me hope! i was just diagnosed today. i was on an online dating site and deleted my profile an hour ago...i just dont feel worthy of any man. so what did you say when you told him? i dont know if i should tell a guy immediately...so he can decide to leave or stay. idk

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devestatedamy18

I'm glad please don't lose hope! I didn't really have to go through the talk with him because he also has gh so i can't help you there :/ sorry but i met him at a dating site strictly for ppl who have this or other stds. Be careful out there though. U have to realize that some people have this for a reason. But this also helps u see that relationships arent games or jst for alittle while. Once you comit to being with someone and theyr goin through this with you...you may just b in it for the long run. There are plenty of dating sites for ppl like us. If you're not ready to date you can still meet people that are looking for friends who can relate. Good luck out there dont ever give up! :)

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Newleaf100

This is an inspiring thread to read. Yes, do not give up hope. Life is still very good, and little virus does not define who we are as people. I believe there are good people out there and that connections, intimate or not, take time to start and develop. Take care. Best

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devestatedamy18

Thanks and yes your right I was really bummed at first but now i don't think about it as a bad thing. Truly it is a blessing in disguise

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