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New to this and not sure where it came from / protecting partner

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charleigh

Recently had a pretty bad outbreak, my very first.

With a partner for a few years, he's never had any symptoms whatsoever. Has had a coulurful past sexually, but clean std tests.

We broke up once for 3 months in which he had unprotected oral sex with a random.

Since then Ive had an active HPV infection and now an outbreak of painful blisters.

So did the virus come from me or him? Should he be protecting himself? Should we be sexually active while tests results come in?

Am I missing something? I really dont understand it all.

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Acesheart
Recently had a pretty bad outbreak, my very first.

With a partner for a few years, he's never had any symptoms whatsoever. Has had a coulurful past sexually, but clean std tests.

We broke up once for 3 months in which he had unprotected oral sex with a random.

Since then Ive had an active HPV infection and now an outbreak of painful blisters.

So did the virus come from me or him? Should he be protecting himself? Should we be sexually active while tests results come in?

Am I missing something? I really dont understand it all.

Hey charleigh, welcome to our site :wavey: . If either of you have ever had previous sex partners, either one of you could or even both of you, could have carried herps for many years and just never knew. Most Std panel test Do Not test for h. It's crazy I know, but you must request the herps specific blood test called the Igg. Most Dr do Igm. I have ghsv2 for 24 years I stayed dormant for 23 years, just had a second outbreak. I'm ghsv2.my husband of 22 years is a non h man. I only had one other partner before I married my first hubby, he was my giver, so I considered myself safe because I was married. We were together for 5 years. He cheated, I got h, then got divorced. Is your h type h1 or h2 genital? Many women get their genital h from oral sexy times. Has he or you ever had a cold sore, that's h1. Are you on antivirals? Also how did you test? These test have numeric values, numbers, some believe these numbers can give an idea of possible length with with h. Like newly exposed or years with it. There is a website www.medhelp.org , address your questions and these test results to a Dr.Grace., she will explain them to you in detail. Also here is a book www.westoverheights.com , please read all you can, get educated and educate him too. Please feel free to ask any and all questions here in the forum. You can visit live Chat too. Take care. Truly, Ace :hithere:

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Recently had a pretty bad outbreak, my very first.

With a partner for a few years, he's never had any symptoms whatsoever. Has had a coulurful past sexually, but clean std tests.

We broke up once for 3 months in which he had unprotected oral sex with a random.

Since then Ive had an active HPV infection and now an outbreak of painful blisters.

So did the virus come from me or him? Should he be protecting himself? Should we be sexually active while tests results come in?

Am I missing something? I really dont understand it all.[/QUO

You don't say how long ago he left the relationship then came back or exactly how bad your o/b was. What was the time frame of last having sex with him and your o/b?

Were your sores scraped and cultured and did you have blood testing?

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