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jacob33

Hello everyone!

I'm sure you've heard this story before. Loving husband has a temporary lapse of judgement and ends up making a huge mistake. :(

Well the story is, about a month ago, I had unprotected oral sex with a massage therapist. I felt an irritation for the next 24 hours but it subsided after a day or two so I figured it was just the massage oils.

A few days ago, I noticed a lump on my penis and I'm unsure what it is. I had a doctors appointment scheduled tomorrow (without my wife knowing) but she decided to do some errands with me so I will have to reschedule. I've been abstaining from sex with my wife until I'm sure that I cannot pass on anything to her.

Here is the pic (VERY NSFW): [url=http://i.imgur.com/xxy2d.png]http://i.imgur.com/xxy2d.png

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Acesheart
Hello everyone!

I'm sure you've heard this story before. Loving husband has a temporary lapse of judgement and ends up making a huge mistake. :(

Well the story is, about a month ago, I had unprotected oral sex with a massage therapist. I felt an irritation for the next 24 hours but it subsided after a day or two so I figured it was just the massage oils.

A few days ago, I noticed a lump on my penis and I'm unsure what it is. I had a doctors appointment scheduled tomorrow (without my wife knowing) but she decided to do some errands with me so I will have to reschedule. I've been abstaining from sex with my wife until I'm sure that I cannot pass on anything to her.

Here is the pic (VERY NSFW): [url=http://i.imgur.com/xxy2d.png]http://i.imgur.com/xxy2d.png

Hey jacob welcome. I'm sorry I'm married I don't look at penis pics. But I have ghsv2 for 24 years. My h started like this, bumps, blisters , sores got infected and spread to anus. Is this a blister? You think this may be from oral sexy times, correct? If it is hsv 1 genitally, this is the h that sheds less, its less contagious and has less outbreaks. Make sure if this bump has fluids, get that swabbed/cultured. Also request an herpes specific blood test, the Igg blood test..most Dr do Igm, these are not reliable , not accurate. Keep us posted. I'm happy you found us. Here is a book www.westoverheights.com , please educate yourself. I agree, until you know what this is, do not have sexy times with wife. My ex hubby, we were newly married, had affairs and gave me h. I gave him divorce. I wish he would have considered my health, before he chose to have sexy times with me. Don't best yourself up, you were human, get this diagnosed and move forward. Please be honest with your spouse. Some think grass is greener, Not so, just different lawn :( . Take care, Ace

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hatsu

I'm not sure, it looks like something else. does it hurt when you touch it?

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jacob33

Thanka for the quick replies guys!

Ace, its not really a blister, looks more like a big mosquito bite. I'm sorry to hear about how you got the H. I dont know how I could live

with myself if I get my wife infected. I'll look Over the link later on.

:)

Hatsu, no it does not hurt when I touch it. And trust me, I've poked, squeezed, massaged, and even begged it to go away.

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Iridewheelies

Yeah I'm not entirely sure what I was looking at there. Didn't look like my herpes. I highly suggest you see a dr and fast. Abstaining from sex with the wife can be risky business atop an already slippery slope

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Spock

This does not look like the herpes I've seen on a penis, but then again, I have seen some herpes that just looks like little razor bumps. Your only option is to get tested, get a culture test before it goes away, and if it's gone too soon before you make the doctors you may need a blood test. Also, please do not keep this information from the wifey, as wheelies said, slippery slope.

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