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Ok so I'm 21 weeks pregnant & worried to death about passing an std to my baby at birth. For about 2 years now I have been suffering from a diganosis I'm not sure is correct. It started with one pearly white pimple like lesion on my inner vagina & when I looked at it it popped very easily & turned into an ulcer type thing that repeatedly fills with pus every week or so(pus is not visible unless you pop it. I.e. no white head to it) & it's been like that for literally 2 years, never gone away. Ive been to three different doctors including my obgyn for my pregnancy & none of them seem to see the sore I am talking about and think I'm crazy. Herpes blood test & syphilis blood test always come back negative. Then about 2 days ago I noticed on my inner left labia I think? The inside lip of my vagina, two lesion looking sores & rushed to my obgyn to get them checked & he said "they're skin tags" which I think is wrong because they look nothing like skin tags & theyre in the mucus membrane area & they look like lesions to me....also recently I was screened for all the stds including herpes again & all of which came back negative, except still waiting for the herpes results which I won't get back until January 3rd. And add most importantly either of these don't really hurt. Ill get a slight random tingling sensation or throbbing sensation or itchy but never all at the same time. Sorry if TMI. Any questions please ask, & please advice or feedback, doctors think I am completely insane about this so I am hopeless & scared & don't need judgement or mean responses. Thank you.

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Hey UGHH, WELCOME!! Honey first off , noone is here to judge you . Did they actually culture or swab this sore? Did they test for genital warts, HPV ? I have a daughter. I had h years before I had my daughter and she is fine. Your nervous and understandably so. The baby will be fine. How did they test you, by blood? I'm assuming that is why you have to wait for the h results?. Can you get copies of your test, just to rule out what it isn't. I want to know if you have tested when you found out you were pregnant? When I became pregnant they ran all sorts of test. My doctors already knew I had h. I had to tell them. Please try not to stress. The test you did take have all come up negative and maybe it is just a matter of seeing an infectious disease doctor. I'm sorry your going through this. Being pregnant is hard enough on the hormones, without having to worry about other things. Remember to take care of the two of you. Please relax, stress is way worst than h. I don't understand what you mean by they can't see the sore. Maybe wait til it pops up again, get to doctor and show them what you are popping. This really doesn't sound like h, but I am not a doctor. I have ghsv2 and had anus h too. It's been 24.years now. If you need to talk post here or private message me. I'm here. Take care and please keep us posted. Hugs, Ace :hithere:

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I've had hsv 2 (genital herpes) for 2 years and I've never ever seen pus in any of the blisters I've had. as far as I know, there shouldn't be pus present at all, just like with a normal blister, only clear fluid. I hope you find out what's going on but in the mean time just enjoy your pregnancy, it'll be over before you know it. good luck!

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