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It always seems to be at fault for everything.

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So I'm struggling with trying not to blame everything on herpes. It seems like everything that has gone wrong, or not gone specifically as planned lately I turn around and blame it on the virus.

I don't know whether I'm using this is a way to cope with it, but it is starting to drain me and I feel like I'm just absolutely losing it.

The only stress reliever I had was running, but sweating just makes the outbreak that much more miserable. I would literally have to stop in my tracks at the park and use a nearby try to rub my crotch up against to satisfy the itch. Feel so isolated with this...

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hey hun listen i felt the same way in the beginning... when i got the virus all of the sudden unfortunate stressful events started to happen to me...but they seem to come in chunks like that even before the virus.. you may just have this virus on your mind more than you think...it can be anxieties or stress... do not feel isolated as we are here to help you through this... i am here if you ever need to talk you can reply here or even message me :)

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    • dont quit!17
      Doesn't this suck. Using protection and still catching this BS. Uggh, my life story!!
    • Voyager2
      I think Dr. Jerome is just being cautious. I've followed what he's done and have 100% confidence in him. Predicting the exact number of years to a cure would be hard, but their last article about HSV makes me think it can't be too far off. 
    • Leemell48
      Did you ever find out if this was herpes or not?
    • WilsoInAus
      @GotMeAtLast I doubt the doctor actually told you that, that doesn’t explain why you kept coming here looking for validation.  By your own admission, you have had oral HSV-1 for years. Further you have never swabbed positive from your genital region. Everyone is allowed to form their own conclusions on the basis of that truth. If you wish to conclude you have genital herpes, that’s OK. If I want to conclude you don’t, that’s OK.
    • Leemell48
      It's been five months since possible exposure and keep having symptoms. I keep experiencing thigh and pelvic pain and thick discharge. Also get shooting pains vaginally and on my butt. I just saw a small white bump inside my labia and next to it is a small open sore. They don't hurt when touched but the rest of my vagina hurts when touched or sitting. Does any of this sound like anyone's ob? I got tested in October but I'm scared I tested too early and now having trouble getting a doctor to retest me  

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