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Hello All, Im new here, so i hope this is in the right section.(sorry for the long post, but please read and advise)

My Stupid Move was on March 2, 2007 :( before this date my wife and i had broken up and had filed for divoce so i was already very stressed out.

I met this woman over the internet in a chat room and became friendly with her and she invited me to come and have sex with here, it seemed like she was a nice person and all so i took her up on her offer. Drove 2 hours away to spend the night in a hotel room to be with her, i'm a photographer by profession so in our talks we had discussed taking some pics of her in the nude and she wanted some of us having sex together, so i agreed, but i told her lets get the sex part out of the way first and then do pics. Well i arrived at the hotel that she insisted on and waited on her, she was about 2 hours late from the time that we were suppose to meet, so while waiting i took out my laptop and begin surfing the chat rooms again jsut to kill time. i happen to see someone from the same town that she was from, so i begin chating with them and asking questions about this woman that i was meeting. the person i was chatting with told me that she use to be pretty wild but she may not be that way anymore. So really i jsut dismissed those words and didnt think anymore about it. So finally she comes, looked pretty nice and didn't appear that anything would be wrong with her. So we talked for a few mins and then we got right into it. After then was my big MISTake, I lost my head and begin having oral sex with her, now lets back up a min. during our previous chats in the chat room all she talked about was that she wanted me to eat her and she wanted pics of me doing that. ok, so thats what i started doing and then from there was my next big MISTAKE which was to start having sex with her unprotected she jumped right on top and started, but i didnt last very long so it all ended in about 5 or 10 mins. Well after then she went into the bathroom and wetted a towel for me to wipe with and she began to run water in the tub to take a bath. I was kinda amazed because most people would take a shower right quick but she took a bath. Well after she took a bath she came out and laid on the bed for a few mins and i said, I will run and get us some food from down the street and when i come back we can begin taking the pics that you want.

So i left to go and get the food was gone about 15 maybe 20 mins. When i returned to the room and opened the door GUESS WHAT! She was no where to be found, all my stuff was intact(camera, laptop,etc) but she was gone. I tried calling her number over and over again but no answer, at this point i didn't know what to think, I began to get nervous so nervous that i could not even eat my food, not to mention that i had food for her too. So then i got back on the computer, I was gonna try to find someone else who lives in the same town who might know her, and luckly i did. so i began to ask some more questions and i told this guy what had happened and he told and i quote "man you had better go get checked out quick, she gave some man aids" and what did i hear that for, at that point i just paniced and didn't know what to do, i did not sleep any the whole night and the next few nights. I finnally got up with her about 2 days later and her excuse was that when i went to get the food, her sister called and said that her son had fell and had to be rushed to the hospital so she had to leave very quickly. Now she had my phone number but she didnt call me to let me know what as going on, so anyway i still was in a panic.

Well the next week i began to feel some tingling in my penis and everytime i would go to the bathroom i would feel this tingling, but there was no discharge, so i discided i had better go and see my Dr. to get some test done, now mind you this was a week after the fact. the dr told me that i was problably something that was all in my mind and give me a prescreption for bladder infection and took blook test for gonnerea and chymedia and let me go. Well 2 days later he called be back and said that the test were fine and that i shouldnt worry. That eased my mind a little bit but a few days later i was still worried because i was still getting that same feeling, and i said to myself, something is still wrong, so i went down to my local health dept(because they were free) to get some more test done and the doc there took a look at my gentials area and said that he didnt see anything and then they took blood work for test and let me go. it was gonna be about 2 weeks before the test came back. It was a lonnnnnnnnnnng 2 weeks with worry, but when the test finally came back everything came back negitive, (hiv, gonnerrea,chymedia,syphill, hepatiss) i think they did everything but Herpes. and that leaves me to where i am now. Sorry for the long story but i wanted you guys to get the just of what actually went on.

NOW to my symptoms: every since my last test i still have been having the tingling in my penis, i have been having headaces, not actually headaces but it seems that its pressure all over my head at times and then at times it just seem to sit right in the middle of my forehead. My back has been hurting and my bottucks and both sides at times have been tingling and my feet have been very hot at times and tingles and also my legs at times have this tinglling feeling. My neck is very stiff and some times my nose is very stuffy. I did notice two bumps that appeared on my fact at one time(one on my lip and one right next to my lip) but they went away. I have this over all bad body feeling and my eyes seems to be very tired at times and they seem to be puffy. I also have this bad sorta taste in my mouth and at times my urnine seems to be a little darker that usual. My stomach seems to feel very bloated at times, specially after i eat and i seem to go to the bathroom to bm a lot more that usual but when i do go it doesnt seem to be dierrea but it does seem to not be as dark as usual.

So i began reading up on herpes and from all that i have read i have all the symptoms of herpes and i am very scared at this point.

I jsut want something right now to make the symptoms go away.

I do plan on going to get tested for herpes next week, but i am trying to find another dr. to go to or someone else who does test where the dr. does not know me personally.

I hope that someone here can help me and give me some insight on whats happening to me, i really could use some one to talk with.

I will be glad to answer any questions that anyone might have about this.

Sorry for listening and sorry for the long post.

Restless in Mississippi:(

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i would only question herpes, because you said you had 2 bumps that appeared on ur lip, and right next to it. which would indicate coldsores.

relax thats really the best thing u can do right now.

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Thanks for your response ,

but did you really read the post good, how can i relax when im having all of these symptoms, where are the symptoms coming from? and what can i do about them?

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well if u dont relax your going to be buggin out making it worse. if it IS herpes. stress will cause you to break out.

thats up to you how to figure out how to relax. when i think of things that piss me off, or stress me out like going to the dmv, ill get a ob. but if i stop myself from doing that nothing happens.

and there are lots more symptoms to herpes then you listed. you only really listed the red dots, and some aches and pains.

theres something called mass hysteria, 1 persons sick> and omg you breathed next to them, now you think your sick, you are mentaly making your self sick.

THATS WHY im saying relax, your "symptoms" might just go away.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mass_hysteria

but its also a good idea to get that blood test, like i said only those 2 dots would convince me u had herpes

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responding to the symptoms you describe.

Herpes can cause flu like symptoms, muscle aches and spasms, blisters, rash like vesicles, ulcers, headaches etc. Oral infection may cause more muscle aches and spasms around your head and shoulders and genital may cause more muscle aches and spasms around your lower back and down your legs.

What I learned in researching herpes lately that I wish I learned years ago is that if you have been infected and you get medical attention right away taking antivirals may lessen the overall extent of the infection over your life time. In other words if you get treated right away you can save yourself a lot of unnecessary physical discomfort in the future.

We can comment on what you share with us but we can't diagnose you. We can't give you a blood test or prescribe medications only your dr can do that.

You should be very direct and ask your dr for herpes specific blood work if they didn't do it when you went to the clinic.

It is a good idea to follow up with blood work for hsv again in the future and until you know diffinitively that you are not infected you should abstain from unprotected sex oral and genital with everyone.

Emotions can cause symptoms to become worse - try to not freak out and get second opinions or specific testing so that you can relax.

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Thanks folks for your input, i will try and relax.

Im trying to wait until may 1st before i go to the doc, that's when my insurance will start, but how do i find a doc who knows what he or she is doing, I don't plan on going to my regular dr. because i know them personally and i dont think i would feel to comfortable with them in this situation so i need to find someone else, what would be a good way of doing this?

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when your insurance kicks in, they usually have a list of docs that are covered by them. go with one of those, see if you can find a specialist in stds, call, say you think you might have been exposed to herpes, but you want a blood test to find out if it's been passed on to you. any doctor will do the test, but if you can find someone who specializes, it's even better. any doctor can fill out a form for a blood test. you ask how you can find someone who knows what they're doing... well, most doctors do, otherwise i would think they wouldn't have their MD! =) i can totally understand not going to your regular doctor. nobody wants to talk to someone they know when it comes to this sort of thing. i know i didn't. free clinics are often good, that's where i was originally diagnosed, and they were very kind and everything, and, while they had questions about what the situation might have been to my getting herpes, they didn't push it if i didn't want to tell them. having been raped, i didn't want to talk about it much, but the doc i saw figured out that was what had happened, and, while encouraging me to say something to police, didn't force the issue and didn't call the cops herself.

anyway, all this to say: if this is the only test you want done, see pretty much any doc, and they can help you out.

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Hello Again

I have one last question, and that is, Lets assume that i have herpes, either one or both. what can i do about the syptoms that i have, will meds help this or what, i can't get anyone to answer this. symptoms that i am having are slight headeaches and a total warm feeling sometimes in my head, a tight neck, a bloated feeling stomach, often bowel movements, buttocks tingling, legs sometimes tingling, lower back pain, warm feet sometimes, bad taste in mouth sometimes.

None of these things are just totally killing me but they can be sort of a bad body feeling.

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Hello Again

I have one last question, and that is, Lets assume that i have herpes, either one or both. what can i do about the syptoms that i have, will meds help this or what, i can't get anyone to answer this. symptoms that i am having are slight headeaches and a total warm feeling sometimes in my head, a tight neck, a bloated feeling stomach, often bowel movements, buttocks tingling, legs sometimes tingling, lower back pain, warm feet sometimes, bad taste in mouth sometimes.

None of these things are just totally killing me but they can be sort of a bad body feeling.

Sorry to hear what happened... as for your symptoms, "buttocks tingling, legs sometimes tingling, lower back pain" are the ones that could be genital herpes based. I'm not too clear on the effects of oral herpes. I would guess that the other symptoms (headaches, etc.) are stress related.

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from your symptoms, if it in fact turns out to be herpes, then there is a possibilty you contracted it in two locations, if she was in fact shedding the virus when you performed oral sex on her, and had vaginal sex with her as well. The actively shedding virua can infect the mouth, as well as the genital region so keep that in mind....if you do in fact have a positive blood test(initially or in 2-3 months from a second test). However, I hope it turns out to be nothing and just a lesson learned about the risks out there.

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I just found out that I have HSV today. I was reading through your symtoms and I had all of them. I had no idea headaches were a symptom. I have never had a problem with them and then recently I've had headaches a lot. I blaimed switcing birth controls. I had the flu symptoms the tingling, and the back aches. I'm assuming that you have HSV too. Do you get the symptoms before each OB? I'm asking because I"m terrified of letting this happen again. I would like to be able to catch it and treat it at the onset. I was misdiagnosed twice and it let my symptoms worsen. Do you know what the tingling is from?

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Actually i don't know yet if i have it or not because i haven't gone to the the doctor yet, i will be going the first week in may when my insurance kicks in. But as far as an ob are concerned, i really don't know what an ob is or if ive had any ob or not, all i know is that i did have one small bump on my lip and one beside my lip for a few days and then they dried up and went away. now as far as all the symptoms that i mentioned in my post, ive been having them for about 3 weeks now off and on so i don't know what they are come from and what to do to stop them, i guess im still looking for some anwsers from some one here. but i guess i will find everything out when i go to see the doctor which i am very scared to go but i know i must go so im going.

I just found out that I have HSV today. I was reading through your symtoms and I had all of them. I had no idea headaches were a symptom. I have never had a problem with them and then recently I've had headaches a lot. I blaimed switcing birth controls. I had the flu symptoms the tingling, and the back aches. I'm assuming that you have HSV too. Do you get the symptoms before each OB? I'm asking because I"m terrified of letting this happen again. I would like to be able to catch it and treat it at the onset. I was misdiagnosed twice and it let my symptoms worsen. Do you know what the tingling is from?
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