i feel all alone

[cjsny1]

hi i was diagnosed with gh in november and have just finished my second ob i have no idea where this has come from and was in a relationship when it happened unfortunately my partner was the only one who knew of this and we have since split up so i am now alone and trying to deal with this and im not doing very well

i feel very hurt and bitter and having no one to share tis with makes it so much worse i feel so alone and cant see how i can have future relationships as soon as i tell that person wat i have they will just run a mile

if anyone can help me and talk to me it would be appreciated

[WaxedWrong]

ok my advice, get your hair done, go get your nails done, call up some friends, go to the "city" or whatever is a very popular place in your area. and go shopping. get your "sexy"back - when you feel good, herpes doesnt mean anything. and you dont have to share it with anyone, dont think you need to- as long as you understand what it is, and how to deal with it (medical/emotionaly) then thats all that matters.

and the ones that run away after finding out- are the ones that arent worth it, when you find the right one, he will say w/ or w/o herpes. it might takes some time, and a few bad ones to find him, but you always have to know that hes out there, and what you do now in your choices will either help you find him or not.

cause sitting here hating yourself isnt going to help.

so go crab your credit cards, and buy something nice.

[rosemarine]

Hi cjsny1

Hi cjsny1 --

The most important thing is that you are reaching out to others right now. Congratulations, its a big step forward toward healing!

It's true, getting the diagnosis is really a traumatic thing, especially if you don't have anyone you feel you can talk to. But I can tell you in my experience, that things get better with time, and the anger and the resentments go away eventually, if you are willing to part with them.

Just keep reaching out, and if you are worried about dating and relationships, there is a thread just for that on that in this site. Keep on expressing yourself, and you will slowly but surely move into hope and optimism.

Peace,

Rosemarine