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I truely hope someone can help me.

I have genital herpes for 7 years now, and have a 3 months old baby.

I am so scared !!!! Herpes can be very dangerous for babies and I wash my hands all day lately...:confused:

something strange happen to me 2day: I have a small cut on my finger and simoltaneously I am having a flare-up since 2 days ago. while sitting with my baby the cut opened for some reason (really small cut) and by an instinct I licked the wound.

Can I get the Herpes in my oral area because of that??? Isn't the virus in the bloodstream as well?? I am not worried about myself because I am taking zovirax for 2 days now, but if the virus is in my oral area...and I am kissing my baby??? can I kiss her??

sorry for the funny Q, I am getting nuts...:cry:

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the virus is NOT in your bloodstream it is your nervous system.

although it is true that the same virus that causes genital herpes can cause oral infections it is unlikely that you have done that through what you have described.

keep up with the handwashing each time you come into contact with the infected area and maybe wear band-aids to calm your fears.

as long as you don't have oral hsv or coldsores I'd think that you are safe to kiss your baby.

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answer

thanks 4 your answer, i am new here and you are the first that i meet...;) but did you know that while primary herpes episode the virus can be found in bloodstream? this is why i asked. ofcourse it is in our CNS but maybe in bloodstrem too....

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I've never heard about it being in the bloodstream. I understand that our own antibodies are present in the bloodstream and begin forming at initial exposure.

you did mention that you've had this for many years so I did not think that this could be a first ob for you. I still find it unlikely that a little cut where you've never had an ob thus far would be suspect. the virus can be transmitted to hands but it is not a preferred location.

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I just learned something.

I had no idea a plaster was the same as a bandage. Yeah band-aid is actually a registered brand name and I'm so used to saying it I never think of it's proper name.

but honestly they call them, plasters, how funny is that?

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