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ok so heres the lowdown: i made friends with this guy at work.. we hung out once, i was into him, but got over it as i got to know him more and found other interesting men(especially one on the positive site!) but i hung out with him last week, alcohol was involved, after everyone else left or went to bed, we hung out more in the living room and watched a movie.. then we switched it to porn( im sorry, i watch it cuz its funny) and i was laughing about it.. then it started to get to that point when he kept talking about fighting urges and i was just like ummm ok, u know whatever.. we we started making out er what have you.. and i had to stop him, cuz he didnt know.. after i tell him the situation, he not only stops, but he jumps across to the other side of the couch, and dares to say "omg thank you, you couldf have just saved my life!" as if i am going to like murder him! like really.. ok well heres the twist.. i go to leave to go home, my car gets towed!!!! he had to call the cops to find out where it was towed to(which turned out to be like 20 mins away) and he drove me there.. whole time in silence! after i got my car($200 later!) he took off like a bat out of hell..

well im very open with having this disease.. most of my friends at work and outside work know i have it, so him telling is no issue to me.. i just thought it was so terrible what he said to me.. i even went so far as to tell him the transmission rates... yes i know theres lots of good people out there, and im not too bothered by him rejecting me cuz i have better on my plate during this boy flood im having right now.. i just thought it was messed up... we'll see what happens tuesday when i see him at work... hmmmm

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i applude you so much

it wasnt a very nice response, but u did the right thing, and no one can say otherwise!!

if everyone had your sense, most of us wouldnt be in this situation!!

his response is typical of sumone who doesnt know about HSV, most people think STDs = death. well we know they dont!

hope any future people u tell dont have that response...

chin up, he may think u saved him, but by his response, you saved youself...

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Your attitude is rockin' and I applaud you for being so honest and brave and OPEN about your status. For every scaredy cat out there, perhaps you will open the eyes of someone who doesn't know and understand herpes.

I do not blame him for being ignorant and/or afraid. But how he handled things was very childish.

oh well, no biggie. AS you said, better things are on your plate!!

good luck to you and stay strong.

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That was funny. If you're going to have a bad night - might as well have a REALLY bad night!!! :) I'm only sorry your car cost you $200. As for the 'rejection' - you had a lucky escape. :D

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yup, i know on the real.. worse off is that i work with him, luckily in a different dept. so far i still havent really talked to him.. worst thing that happened was that he yelled at me today cuz he overheard me telling his friend kind of what happened, but only pertaining to the tow situation and didnt even really bring up his name other than to say it happened at his house and he didnt want to give me a ride.. and this punk arse blew up at me.... i just laughed it off, then wrote him a note before i left that i didnt really mention his name and that next time he listens to someones conversation, he should listen to the whole thing.. lol i just thought it was hilarious.. some people are just ignorant and immature... DUMB! lol :lol:

thank you all for your wonderful comments, i hate when people make us feel dirty.. i think if we were all more open about our situations, perhaps the stigma behind herpes would be severely lessened if not dropped completely.. but i understand that a lot of people are much more conservative than i am.. and i respect that.:cool:

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