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mixedemotions

I've been hsv-2 positive for a few weeks now, and at first I was ok with it, took it very well, but it just keeps getting worse, everything keeps crumbling beneath me, everyone who said they would be there for me isn't . I just need some people who understand this . So yea, I guess if anyone wants to help a girl on the verge of breaking, here's your chance . :/

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package deal 1957

welcome to the forum. I sorry that people disappointed you by not being there. Sometimes people just dont know how to handle it or understand what your going through both physically and emotionally. but we are here and i here anytime you want to talk

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mixedemotions

Thank you, I don't blame people for not understanding, it's a really confusing thing, atleast I think it is . I'm just hoping this is the right step to learning to love myself and get life moving again .

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hobbes

mixedemotions, welcome to the forum. You are not alone in feeling the way you do. The initial shock can be overwhelming for a lot of people. If you can try to keep it in perspective though it should help. Remember you have HSV not cancer. For most people, you can live a very healthy and normal life with HSV. If it helps think of it as getting the chicken pox every other month. Again, I know the initial shock may not let you see it that way but try to understand that having HSV is not the end of the world. You will have sex again, you will find someone who loves you, you will learn to deal with this, I guarantee. It just takes time.

I've been GHSV2 positive for 14 years and I live a normal life. I don't tell anyone about my gift unless I plan to be intimate with them or I feel that I can trust them because they have an open mind. If I need to vent or need advice, I come here. I've met quite a few people who are really awesome people and hope you do the same. Keep your head up and always love yourself. Best wishes.

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lovelyme22

You can message me at any time.. I'm always on here. I'm also hsv2 positive. I could use someone to talk to as well. Im also a female and it seems easier for females to talk to each other about this.. Esp with different symptoms.

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