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I am new to the site. I am not new to this gift. I received it from someone whom thought it was not neccessary to inform me of the problem.:mad:

I have been out of the 4 year relationship with this person. I am now trying to move on. I am going thru a roller coaster of emotions because of this. Not many people are willing to give you a chance to get to know the real you. Everyone is in a hurry to have sex and get to know you later. Then, you have to put the brakes on and tell them of your issues and then you are avoided like the plaque. We can be friends but nothing else. As you can tell this is still a bit fresh just this week. I have spent at least 2 days beating myself up about this and still want to cry. All of this makes you want to just give up

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Hi,

Hang in there, it does get better. Takes a while though. Felt like I cried for weeks on end. PMS week is still pretty bad. I'm about 3 months in and finally I don't cry everyday. This is a great site, you'll find a wealth of helpful information and many people you can turn to when you're feeling like the biggest loser on the planet. You can't have that badge, it's already been given out.

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Thank God For Friends

yES i UNDERSTAND THE FRIEND THING, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT, FRIENDS OR REAL ONES DONT CARE IF YOU HAVE h THEY LOVE YOU REGARDLESS. YOUR FRIENDS ARE LIKE UNCONDITIONAL YA KNOW? AND SINCE SOME OF US ARE FEELING LIKE WE HAVE THE PLAGUE OR SOMETHING I WOULD SAY IT IS A WONDERFUL THING ....THE HAND OF A FRIEND.... HOLDS YOU UP IN TIMES LIKE THESE AND PUTS MORE VALUE ON YOU THAN A SEXUAL PARTNER. FRIENDS CAN BE LOVERS BUT LOVERS CAN NEVER BE JUST FRIENDS.... ONCE ITS OVER

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When You're Done Beating Yourself Up

Since I'm a counselor by trade, I try very hard to make sure I don't go into my automatic counselor mode. Been there done that with the beat myself up thang. We all deal with this disease differently. I'm responding because 3 weeks ago I was new to this site and 3 people made me feel welcomed. I have HAD HSV-2 since 1983. No woman has ever rejected since I started dating again in 1990. I would however understand if one did. I honestly don't know what I would do if the the script was flipped. Life goes on. Anyone looking for sex then something else later I would be skeptical of. I try to understand these days rather than be understood. I promise it gets better, I just can't promise you when. You'll know when it happens. Good lUck...GTBMC

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