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Hello everyone,

I justed wanted to tell you why I join this forum. Well as you know it have to do with the HSV-2 I just found out I had a couple of days ago. I'm not really have feeling of nastiess or durty. I feel like I want to kill my x-bf. I feel he knew he had this virus and did not care who he gave it too. I know it was my fault also because I did not use any protection during sex, but if feel I want to knock the (s--t) out of him. Later in my relationship I found out he was that type of person and that is why I am not with him today. I had no symptoms of this HSV-2. I ee a holistic doctor and he told me my blood was bad. so I went to my medical doctor to get check for STD's and I was found to have HSV-2. I am sure my x-boy friend gave it to me on purpose because he was the only man I was seeing and he told me during our relationship that when he was younger, the only type of women he ever dated was (HOES). of course I was informed this nine months after I met him. Sometimes I am not sure If I had HSV-2 for some time. but I have not dated for some time, and my x-bf was the most resent. I keep thinking that maybe I could have given it to him, but he never call to say anything. A read that it is easier for a male to transfer herpes to a woman than it is for a woman to transfer it to a male. I am trying to get over knowing my x-boy friend did this on purpose. I have heard of men hating women to the point of going out to date women just to give them STD. I hope this forum help me to move away from wanting to bet his "a--". As fare as me excepting it (HSV-2). I do. I know I am much more than HSV-2 and I can find someone who will see that too.

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Hang in there

Yo mad, everyone deals with the news differently. I was in shock for days and then I felt shame. Don't think I ever got mad, probably because I'll never know who gave it to me. It's been almost 25 years for me now. I have no one to blame but me cause I should have wrapped it up. If he gave it to you on purpose, karma will take care of him. Women also get hurt and intentionally give it to men so no one sex is to blame. I think about how I felt and how I

feel everytime I have to disclose it to someone and I do not intentionally want to place that feeling or feelings on another human being. As bleak as things seem to you right now it will get better. You are already off to a good start by finding this site. Hang in there and I'll pray for you....GTBMC:)

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