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well i found out that i have herpes and... after the first initial shock.. i can honestly say that im not scared anymore. i look at it really as a defense mechignizm on my heart rather then always giving a part of it away all the time and always getting hurt.. you pretty much know that the second you tell someone either they are a complete dick about it and you realize that they arnt worth your time anyway... or they are cool about it and you realize that they are really an awesome person. i just wish more people were educated on it. i dont hide it. if people ask about it im an open book i tell them EVERYTHING because everyone should know about it. the only reason WE live in fear is because EVERYONE ELSE just doesnt know the facts. i cant help but feel like we shouldnt be feeling THIS way because of a couple of bumps... who cares? its a couple of BUMPS!!! and im not the only one who thinks its completely rediculous! all the friends that ive ever told (and their are a lot) because im so open about it think it should be stopped too. so i dont hide it and im not scared to tell the world. because when it all comes down to it. its just a couple of bumps. and thats all it will ever be.

im kasey

i have herpes

and thats okay.

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It's just a couple of bumps and life send them to us in one way or an other. Totally agree. If some one runs he'sa waste of your time and you're spared the hassel, if they know you've got something worth checking out


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