@Jules31 is right. I pointed the finger at the guy who possibly gave it to me and he said he was clean as did every other guy that I have been with. I'm quite sure that very few people will admit to passing on herpes and if most people don't ever get tested for herpes and I have no symptoms it wouldn't even occur to them that they have it so of course will not admit to anything. I think if I knew I would just be angry and it still wouldn't change it. Gotta let sh1t go sometimes
Yeah if you use meds and condoms its low risk. They say fewer obs less viral shedding less risk. Hsv2 genital and oral hsv1 are highest. Really you can individual thing in terms of the person who is the carrier and the person who is taking the risk if they have a s*** immune system they might be more likely to catch it.