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Nyirishmen

So I have had symptoms for the past week, and the flaring is just getting worse..

I'm currently in the army and have never had a problem like this until I had sex with a woman a week ago.. I'm petrified to get tested and turns out I do have herpes.. I was so careful and used protection! She swore up and down she had nothing and today I come to find out she deleted me on everything.

I'm going tomorrow to get checked out, but how do you all deal with this? Will I be able to have children? Will my future partner get what I have? I've never been so depressed in my life

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Acesheart

Hey Nyirishmen, welcome. You are a male so technically you really cannot have babies now ;) . Honey relax, you dont know it is even herpes. Many things mimic herpes virus. Was this just a random gurl, why would you not use protections? Once you get tested keep us posted. Im female married, with child and herpes genital typpe 2 over two decades. Take care, Aces :itllbeok:

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Nyirishmen

Thank you very much, makes me feel a lot better. I'm only 20 years old and have my whole life ahead of me and if this is it, I would hate for it to bring me down

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Acesheart
Thank you very much, makes me feel a lot better. I'm only 20 years old and have my whole life ahead of me and if this is it, I would hate for it to bring me down

I was just a wee bit older then you are now when I got herpes from my first husband, 2nd partner EVER.

No still to date my now hubby is a non h man :) I've never passed my h to him. Our daughter is also negative for herpes.

We live very normal life and sexy times and oral pleasures are still apart of our marriage of almost 25 years. He knew before we dated and made his choice to be with me.

There are Many things that mimic the herpes virus. This girl could also be the 80% that has herpes in one form or another, so could you. I stayed dormant after my initial outbreak for 23yrs, had my second outbreak right before my baby left for college, you and she are same age :) .

Get tested before you decide you have herpes. Don't try to self diagnose from Google and other horrible sites that show worse case scenario and scare the crap out of you. We have several user's here in the military and they are herpsters and they live great lives, if you test positive you can live just as normal too honey.

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Nyirishmen

What if I don't take medicine until I come home in 29 days? Will it get worse? I have a combat job so were ways training and doing PT which sweat produces, will that make it worse? I would rather wait until I get home, I would feel much more comfortable

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What if I don't take medicine until I come home in 29 days? Will it get worse? I have a combat job so were ways training and doing PT which sweat produces, will that make it worse? I would rather wait until I get home, I would feel much more comfortable

If you are having an obvious outbreak they will prescribe antiviral medications. If this is herpes. If it isn't these TEST will tell you what you may have like fungal, bacterial or even yeast. I don't take antiviral medications any more and my husband is still negative for herpes.

The antivirals assist in healing an outbreak and for suppression daily therapies. I took them for 25 straight years, these past 3 I take nothing but vitamins b12 for nerves health support, energy and stress relief. You sweat alot so it could just be simple skin issues, sweating does that along with itching, chafing and irritation. Doesn't mean you have h, okay.

You seem to think just because she deleted you on everything that she had a virus or STD, she may have just deleted you because you two were not a good fit. We get dissed for many reasons in life, doesn't mean she was NOT clear of any diseases. Your my daughter's age and I've disclosed to before college and she is learning, as you will too sweetheart, people put up fronts for their character, honesty and moral beings. Many reasons someone will end relationship without explanation. Life is full of people like that. Just be true to you, don't put up facade and be yourself. Women still LOVE a man in uniform, lol.. Get tested before you assume you have herpes please. Don't freak out about something your NOT sure you have. Feel free to ask anything. If it turns out you do have herpes we can help you deal with outbreak. Take care and Don't Assume, okay. Hugs Aces xo :itllbeok:

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