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coldhearted908

Just diagnosed feeling so upset

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coldhearted908

Hello, I am a 30 y.o. woman who was just diagnosed with herpes...my ex who i just broke with saturday confessed to me he has slept with another woman back in november and they had a few times since. i called her up and she admitted that they had unprotected sex...i went a step further googled her phone number and she is a backpage escort....later on that saturday i went to the hospital and i came up positive...juist wanted to join this site because i m so upset about this and when i told my ex he had the nerves to say he's not getting tested....selfish i hope the members here become my new friends and help be get back to the nice happy person i was ...feeling helplesss...

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Acesheart

Hey coldhearted, welcome honey. May I ask if you have ever tested before this ex? Herpes can stay dormant in the body from your first partner or exposure to oral sexy times. If he doesn't want to test that kind of says "HEY I'm not sure I'm not carrying the virus"! My ex hubby cheated and gave me ghsv 2, so I do understand how betrayed you feel. You can only be responsible for your physical and emotional health, wash ur hands of this guy (big jerk) and move on. It took me a while but I found my destiny and you can too. Read all you can in our Library titled "Our Network" and there are many threads here that deal with success and coping and getting healthy. Here is also a book www.westoverheights.com , and once again welcome :itllbeok: Hugs Aces xo

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WilsoInAus

What test did you have that came up positive? What were the actual results?

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