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He's worried he can get it through oral sex when I only have it genitally

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After telling a potential new partner that I have hsv-2 (genital only), he gives it some thought, does some research, and decides he's not comfortable with the risk. That's fine, I understand, joking say I can still give him oral sex. He asks about those risks and I say literally impossible, since I do not have it orally, and transmission requires contact with affected areas. So we actually agree on this and then this morning he texts that after sleeping on it he's just not comfortable with the "what if" even after reading on the relative safety. I kinda want to scream lol. "Relative safety" is applicable if we were having sex. It doesn't apply to something that's literally impossible!!!

So basically...is anyone aware of articles or websites that spell this out in black and white? That I cannot spread my genital hsv through a blowjob?

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Acesheart
After telling a potential new partner that I have hsv-2 (genital only), he gives it some thought, does some research, and decides he's not comfortable with the risk. That's fine, I understand, joking say I can still give him oral sex. He asks about those risks and I say literally impossible, since I do not have it orally, and transmission requires contact with affected areas. So we actually agree on this and then this morning he texts that after sleeping on it he's just not comfortable with the "what if" even after reading on the relative safety. I kinda want to scream lol. "Relative safety" is applicable if we were having sex. It doesn't apply to something that's literally impossible!!!

So basically...is anyone aware of articles or websites that spell this out in black and white? That I cannot spread my genital hsv through a blowjob?

Hey ash welcome. You are correct he cannot get ur genital herps though a "blowjob" . We have some great information www.westoverheights.com and in our lovely library located Top of this forum pages titled "Our Network" please have read up on this herpes argument.

I have to ask if he himself has ever properly tested to know for absolute SURE he doesn't already carry this virus in some form or another? Ask him if he has ever gotten cold sores or fever blisters That is Oral h1. Ask him if he has ever had chicken pox or mono that too is in the Herpes Family :) . Let us know if he has tested, then if he hasn't request he get tested so if he should come down with herpes he cannot come back and say "you gave me this" many do. Hugs Aces :)

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ashsk8s

Perfect. The herpes handbook specifically says something about "a man can have herpes on his penis, and still safely give his partner oral sex." That's exactly what I was looking for!

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Perfect. The herpes handbook specifically says something about "a man can have herpes on his penis, and still safely give his partner oral sex." That's exactly what I was looking for!

Great sweety it's why we are here. My hubby has no issues "eating at the (Y) " it's what guys use to ask other guys when they quote unquote Got Some. Lol...Oh men, gotta love their sensitive side right ? ;)

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blue84

lol sorry but your funny in a good way ...to be honest i think its a missed opportunity and you should gone after it lol then told him maybe he would sleep on it and been well oral sounds good at least that!

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babybat

honestly why would you want to hook up with a guy who acts like its gross to make physical contact with you? that would destroy my self esteem

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