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Hello, I just signed up today even though I have had ghsv for a year and a half. This is my story.

I started dating a guy and like every other guy I dated, I asked if he had been tested, he said he had and was all clean. A couple days later after our first time having sex I had 2bumps. I called him and he yelled at me for accusing him of having an std. I went to the walk-in and the nurse said it didn't look like it. The tests came back negative. Me and the guy stayed together. I was still having problems down there though. A month later he got me pregnant. When I told him he yelled again and then I never heard from him again. It ended in a miscarriage. Then a week later, I got tested again and it came back positive for herpes. After that initial ob they weren't so bad but in the last 7 months I've pretty much had constant obs. Its just getting worse. I've tried so many natural remedies with no luck. (Lysine, olive lead,st johns wort, raspberry leaf, oil of oregeno, DMSO, acv, lemon balm, astragulas, vit c, and the lost goes on...)

I can't afford antivirals so I feel stuck. I feel depressed and not like myself anymore. I get asked out quite a bit but I push people away at the fear of being rejected. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't understand why it is getting worse. The obs are now more painful and last longer. What would cause this?

Sorry for the long post. Thank you for any advice.

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Hello, I just signed up today even though I have had ghsv for a year and a half. This is my story.

I started dating a guy and like every other guy I dated, I asked if he had been tested, he said he had and was all clean. A couple days later after our first time having sex I had 2bumps. I called him and he yelled at me for accusing him of having an std. I went to the walk-in and the nurse said it didn't look like it. The tests came back negative. Me and the guy stayed together. I was still having problems down there though. A month later he got me pregnant. When I told him he yelled again and then I never heard from him again. It ended in a miscarriage. Then a week later, I got tested again and it came back positive for herpes. After that initial ob they weren't so bad but in the last 7 months I've pretty much had constant obs. Its just getting worse. I've tried so many natural remedies with no luck. (Lysine, olive lead,st johns wort, raspberry leaf, oil of oregeno, DMSO, acv, lemon balm, astragulas, vit c, and the lost goes on...)

I can't afford antivirals so I feel stuck. I feel depressed and not like myself anymore. I get asked out quite a bit but I push people away at the fear of being rejected. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't understand why it is getting worse. The obs are now more painful and last longer. What would cause this?

Sorry for the long post. Thank you for any advice.

Hey helpplease, welcome honey. Let me first say how sorry I am for your miscarriage, I've felt that pain and my heart goes out to you. Secondly, why would want any man who responses to you will yelling at your face, that is one guy who needs serious help with anger issues.

Let me ask has anything changed like your diet, job added stress in some form or anxieties? Is there a way you go you could get a script of acyclovir this antiviral cost about $10.00 from Wal-Mart and if the doctor's office will give you a 30day supply, you can take only when needed. It would be about 90pills depends on the prescription. Talk to your doctor's office and explain your financial situation, they will usually try to work with you. My doctor, a few of them, gave me samples. If you let them know, they may work with you honey.

Being asked out does NOT mean they are expecting you to have sexy times, it means they want to have dinner or drinks or just a fun evening out, so why not go. Staying social is very important in dating and just making new friends. There is no rule that says you have to disclose for a date, it's better to get to know a potential partner whether you click or not, it's why we date. Stop holding on to all this pressure, just try having a nice guy take you out, the rest will fall into place. Ask ur doctor's office for samples and or a prescription of antivirals. Hugs Aces xo

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Hey helpplease, welcome honey. Let me first say how sorry I am for your miscarriage, I've felt that pain and my heart goes out to you. Secondly, why would want any man who responses to you will yelling at your face, that is one guy who needs serious help with anger issues.

Let me ask has anything changed like your diet, job added stress in some form or anxieties? Is there a way you go you could get a script of acyclovir this antiviral cost about $10.00 from Wal-Mart and if the doctor's office will give you a 30day supply, you can take only when needed. It would be about 90pills depends on the prescription. Talk to your doctor's office and explain your financial situation, they will usually try to work with you. My doctor, a few of them, gave me samples. If you let them know, they may work with you honey.

Being asked out does NOT mean they are expecting you to have sexy times, it means they want to have dinner or drinks or just a fun evening out, so why not go. Staying social is very important in dating and just making new friends. There is no rule that says you have to disclose for a date, it's better to get to know a potential partner whether you click or not, it's why we date. Stop holding on to all this pressure, just try having a nice guy take you out, the rest will fall into place. Ask ur doctor's office for samples and or a prescription of antivirals. Hugs Aces xo

Thank you so much for replying. It really helps to hear from someone when you feel so alone. Im sorry to hear about your pain as well. Thank you for the advice as well, I've told my Dr about my financial situation but nothing really came out of that. I'm also nervous about being on medication for long periods of time. I'm scared that the herpe virus will get stronger like a super bug if I take antivirals.

Not much changed when the obs started getting worse, things were actually going better for me at the time.

However now things aren't as great, I did get rejected for the first time for having herpes and I lost one of my jobs.

My minds just a mess now. I feel so lost

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Thank you so much for replying. It really helps to hear from someone when you feel so alone. Im sorry to hear about your pain as well. Thank you for the advice as well, I've told my Dr about my financial situation but nothing really came out of that. I'm also nervous about being on medication for long periods of time. I'm scared that the herpe virus will get stronger like a super bug if I take antivirals.

Not much changed when the obs started getting worse, things were actually going better for me at the time.

However now things aren't as great, I did get rejected for the first time for having herpes and I lost one of my jobs.

My minds just a mess now. I feel so lost

Sweetheart listen, I've taken antivirals for 25 yrs straight, no side effects and no chances of the body becoming immune to the antivirals. These are not like antibiotics so no Super Bugs will come from this and what we have isn't bacterial, it's viral. Also, I didn't think I was anxious and stressed more than normal when my daughter was leaving for college, well I was wrong. This incident gave me my second outbreak ever after being asymptomatic for 23 years, our minds can fool us, our bodies can harbor emotions we don't show on the outside. This is another idea, have you tried messaging these Pharmaceutical companies? Some companies will give you these medications fir free as long as you can provide proof you have that particular health problem. Just a suggestion, it's worth a shot honey. Hugs Aces xo

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Sweetheart listen, I've taken antivirals for 25 yrs straight, no side effects and no chances of the body becoming immune to the antivirals. These are not like antibiotics so no Super Bugs will come from this and what we have isn't bacterial, it's viral. Also, I didn't think I was anxious and stressed more than normal when my daughter was leaving for college, well I was wrong. This incident gave me my second outbreak ever after being asymptomatic for 23 years, our minds can fool us, our bodies can harbor emotions we don't show on the outside. This is another idea, have you tried messaging these Pharmaceutical companies? Some companies will give you these medications fir free as long as you can provide proof you have that particular health problem. Just a suggestion, it's worth a shot honey. Hugs Aces xo

Have you been ob free since being on the antivirals for 25 years?

They give you them for free?? I will definitely try that, thank you so much. I just want this nightmare to end.

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Have you been ob free since being on the antivirals for 25 years?

They'll give you them for free?? I will definitely try that, thank you so much. I just want this nightmare to end.

I've had Ghsv 2 for 28 yrs, I had first outbreak that long ago second outbreak 3yrs ago was very mild too. I no longer take antivirals and I've had no problems either. I got and still get yearly blood work done when I get female exams, still good shape with my organs. I am an organ donor and give blood too :) ! Yes, some companies will give you their medication to try for free. It can't hurt right?

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