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My boyfriend gave me herpes and then dumped me. I new him for 17 years from same area started dating him said he wanted a girlfriend ready for serious relationship everything was fine until I got sick .He lives in a differant state from me we agreed to take turns traveling back and forth he lives out of my state 6 months a year but he is always going back and forth.After I got sick I went to see him with my daughter he seemed fine after I left I didn't hear from him for 5 days then two weeks then stopped. I want to know how do you trust again and confide in someone special. I am also looking to take him to court for my medical expenses. I was disagonised in April and I have had 4 outbreaks.:rolleyes:

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starphyse Established Member

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Have you tryed the dieting options on this website? Also good to stay low stress that helps with inital infection outbreaks and also know your not alone. 1 in 4 people have the virus. Lysine helps and olive leaf you can get multi-lysine vitamin c/zinc combo's at the dynamicclear website. As for the over expensive dynamicclear itself it does like 20% better proven the the creams you can get from doctor or hbalm. The other stuff is way cheaper though. As for the vitamin's I think they are worth it the olive leaf is suppose to really help never tryed it so wouldn't know. The lysine is whats most importiant.

Anyway good luck with it and know that it gets better over time and a few years and you won't notice it. ;-)

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Hi Stressed -

What he did to you in called "aggravated assault" and you should pursue your cliam against him for medcial and the pain and suffering you will go throgh for the rest of your life. Maybe he will never do it again to anyone else. That's what we all hope for. I recently filed a personal injury suit against the individual that infected me. I live in CA and he lives in TX so don't let anything stop you - i just found out last month after beign misdiagnosed for almost three months so I am still devastated to say the least. We'll get better :) We will be able to sleep one night soon and they will enver forget that they infected the wrong person this time. I am doing this not only for myself but for the women (and I'm sure there are many) that he has infected in the past and hopefully he'll think about ever devasting anyone again. I'm not eve mad yet but I think I'm getting there. I want to shoot him in both knee caps so he can have just an idea of the pain he has and will cause me for the rest of my life. I don't want to kill him just make him feel the pain -

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Yeah thats kinda the same way my girlfriend got infected she got drunk and her friends introduced her to a guy and she went to call her mom for a ride home and she decided to let him take her instead she got home and ended up in bed with him and the condom broke. She never saw his face again "he knew he had it" then found out he was married the begin with.

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