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justanotherhchick Established Member

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Eight months ago I started dating the man I hoped to spend the rest of my life with but it all fell apart last week when he confessed my condition was still in the back of his mind and it scared him. His biggest fear is to get an STD and he's a!ways been safe about sex and never slept around because of that fear.

I'm heartbroken. I didn't know what love was until I met him. We shared so many similar interests, quirks and pain that we believe that whatever souls were made of, him and mine were the same. For the first time someone cared about me in a sweet loving way, and now he's gone because of this stupid virus.

I want to believe that he just needs time alone to come to terms with it, but a part of me says that he won't and that I'm destined to be alone.

#foreveralone

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He didn't reject you, he rejected the virus.

Has he ever been tested? Chances are he does have hsv1 and if he has ever had mono or chicken pox he has herpes too. Don't let his ignorance get to you.

Good luck!

JB

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I'm sorry :cry: It's better for you to know now. It must have been very hard for him to come to this conclusion. He may have wondered how he would ever tell you. Even if he came back, it would be harder on you now, since you know more about how he feels. You will not be alone for the rest of your life. Your heart will heal. There is someone out there for you. And when you find that person, at the right time, you'll forget about this pain. Though you will always remember the experience, your new love will make this loss of love seem like a hiccup :smile:

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