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I haven't been on this site for years, I stayed with my giver despite being treated badley for years, because I was scared I spose. it wasn't fair on either of us.

I finally got enough courage to leave him, recently an old bf came back into my life, long story short. ive told him. via text. I feel sick, I don't even want to look at my phone to see if he replies. I feel like this is all so new again!!

really just looking for some nice chat really!! kinda panicing. ive never told anyone before :(

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Congrats on getting out of a bad relationship! Woo hoo!!

No matter what your ex says, you are going to be fine. If he doesn't accept it, someone else will. Keep your head up!

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Welcome back, Joperty. november13 is right on both counts. You have made steps in the right direction. You are going to be ok either way. Don't give up hope. Hang in there.

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Thanks for replying :)

I was amazed!!! I knew he was an awesome guy buy I wasn't expecting the way he responded, he didn't really seem to know what hsv was... but instantly just said that he wished he could have been there for me and was worried about my emotions and wether he'd pressured me to talk - he hadn't at all!

I couldn't have a relationship and end up putting this guy at risk but felt he needed to know why I felt that way. I feel so relieved I expected shock and dissapointment!!!

Phew!

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Hello..

I had a simular situation... and old flame and I had recently reunited ..platonic but starred to flirt. I could never resist him in the past. I always wanted to be with him. I contacted HSV2 after him. He has hinted he wants to rekindle our intimacy. ..I push him away because I fear if I tell him he will think differently of me. I don't want him to look at me differently and I don't want to look at him different either. .. I don't think he would be ok with HSV.

It makes me feel sad

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I thought my friend would be like that daisy. Maybe it's worth the risk if you have feelings for him. I wish there was at least some way to keep the people we love safe, I don't really believe stats saying it's hard to catch, I got it from someone who's never had symptoms - unless he lied about that too, after only sleeping with him literally about twice. Lately I've had loads of prodome type symptoms but no outbreak so feel like im always gonna be massively contagious :(

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I thought my friend would be like that daisy. Maybe it's worth the risk if you have feelings for him. I wish there was at least some way to keep the people we love safe, I don't really believe stats saying it's hard to catch, I got it from someone who's never had symptoms - unless he lied about that too, after only sleeping with him literally about twice. Lately I've had loads of prodome type symptoms but no outbreak so feel like im always gonna be massively contagious :(

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