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Hi im new. i was dignoised with HSV-1 genital and oral.. I feel so stupid for contracting it. i feel as though i should have researched every disease thoroughly before ever progressing from holding hands to oral sex. I trusted the wrong guy and now i have this infection that is hated on more than gay marriage (Australian). I really need some advice to deal with the emotional side of things and any advice on preventing OB's. I honestly feel like ive ruined my life. Please help me.

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Hi there, welcome to the website. You have come to the right place. This website has the most accurate information about this virus and the people here are great!

You have NOT ruined your life. There is nothing wrong with having this virus, and that is all it is, a very common, mostly harmless virus. You probably have a dozen other viruses in your body right now as well as dozens of bacteria too. Its part of being human. Have you ever had mono or chicken pox? If so you already had herpes. 90% of all adults have herpes in one form or another. It really is no big deal.

I have been on this website daily for over 6 years and have chatted with thousands of Herpster and many of them have told me that getting genital herpes changed their lives for the better.

Learn all you can about what you have and hopefully you will realize its not that bad. The flu virus kills 30,000 people a year, so next to that this is nothing.

Come to the Live Chat room, there you will find many great people who can offer you their support.

Good luck!


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