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Hi all!

It's great to find a resource like this on the web... Dr Google can be a frightening friend.

I haven't been diagnosed with HSV yet. But basically I gave a CSW guy a BJ and kissed him some 7 weeks ago and since then my tongue has been burning (mildly) pretty much constantly... And today I have noticed a red spot on the tip of my tongue. I've been having regular checks for all other STDs and so far nothing has come up.

I am pretty confused because for what I gather HSV2 rarely happens in the mouth, and it wouldn't cause weeks and weeks of a burning sensation with no other symptoms... and HSV1 should have exhibited cold sores around the mouth?

I did have a fever 2 weeks after this encounter but no blisters anywhere. And the red spot I now have doesn't hurt or itch, I just have this constant sensation on the tip of my tongue.

I am so frustrated...

Thanks

 

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