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So, I can handle the talk OK... Not that I like it. But I have decided that I will disclose this condition to everyone I am intimate with regardless of the circumstances. It's only fair to them.

 

This is not easy!!!!!!

 

My strategy is I like to wait a bit before I get intimate with a girl so that I can get to know her better. This way I don't have to have unnecessary "talks" about my condition with girls I'm not compatible with. The problem I encounter is that some girls are put off by me not making advances on them!! They think I'm not interested, or I don't find them attractive or something! The worst is when they make some moves on me and I make excuses because I'm not ready to have the talk... They can get really upset. 

 

So, girls, what is the best way to put off having sex with you without hurting your feelings?

 

(I can't believe I'm asking this....)

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Hey t361 any girl who is put off by you not wanting to jump between the sheets with her just after you meet them is not worth your energy. It most prolly means if she will bed you she would most prolly bed your best mate too. Just my opinion  Women should have show more respect for themselves and should respect the fact that you are showing them respect for who they are and not whats between their legs. I am a Mom, a wife and a woman who firmly believes in not passing the goodies around to just anyone who comes along. I have drilled this into my daughter and she is bi-sexual, she has practiced what I have preached. I got lucky on that. I have disclosed to her so she has seen what real love of ones self is and of a partner who respects you for you.

I gave the talk decades ago, I trusted someone and refused to have sexy times with him until after 2 yrs of courting/dating and he knew of my herps, I was giving him a chance to run. We just celebrated 26 yrs of married life :) . Some things are worth waiting for, you know ;) Hugs Aces 

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You could say you're not ready, that they mean a lot to you and you don't want to rush things. The right girl will appreciate that you waited and informed her at the appropriate time too. Best of luck.

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