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I made the stupid decision today of receiving an erotic massage and the attendant rubbed her breasts against my penis for a good 3-5 minutes.  There were no lesions on her breasts and she did not rub her breast aggressively.  Am I at risk of herpes or am I just overthinking things?


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It's me again.  I thought everything was okay, but lately my body has been acting weird.  For the last week or so I've been having mild discomfort in my genital area.  On top of that, I've noticed that the underside of my foreskin is slightly red, irritated, and there are tiny little bumps.  There are no signs of blisters, lesions, or discharge of any sort.  It doesn't hurt when I pee either.

I am uncircumcised so I'm not sure my symptoms are herpes or due to too much moisture in that area.  I guess what really freaked me out was that today I was walking home and I experienced a sharp pain in my penis.  I inspected my penis, but I haven't noticed anything else beside what I described above.

It's been 9 days since my encounter and I'm worried I have caught herpes.  I plan on seeing a doctor, but since it's the holiday season I'm going to have to wait until my doctor's office is open.

If you could offer any advice it would be appreciated.


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November is correct, you are over thinking this, and I know why.

Over the 6 plus years I have been coming to this site I have chatted with thousands of Herpsters including many who have had sex with sex worker or someone who they shouldn't have.  Their guilt is so strong they are positive they had to have contracted the 2nd most common STD, herpes.  And your mind can conjure up physical symptoms when there is no underlying reason.  So I bet your symptoms are a result of you feeling guilty for this encounter.  

You didn't get herpes from this encounter, sorry :(


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