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I'm new to this site. 

I was recently diagnosed with hsv2 . When I found out I couldn't believe it because I had only been with one partner for 4 years. We had intercourse and two days later I started  feeling wiered down there it got really bad so I went to the doctor she looked and diagnosed me with herpes before I even received results. I was in denial because I had only one partner so I went to get a second opinion  and the  other doctor said the same thing. I revealed the bad news to my partner  and he turned on me he called me all type of horrible names and told me I had received it from   someone else.  He is said he had been tested prior  and he was clean . I asked if he was tested for herpes he wouldn't give me a answer  he said  he had never had anything wrong down there so he doesn't have it I do. I know I have only slept with one  person for four years so I know who I got it from i just can't believe  he's treating me so bad. I'm trying to research what's best for outbreaks . And what causes them if anyone can help me I would truly appreciate  it. Thank you

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Sorry to see you here but you are at the right place. Everyone here are wonderful.

We are all like you and its hard to believe it.

Herpes could live in our body long time ago.just that they didn't activated. 

May I know if you are still having your first outbreak now?

Please don't worried, we are all here for you and supporting you.


Firstly you just need to know how to control your OB .

And you will be okay. 


Cheers macky:)

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First OB is will be worst.

How is your partner now?

I know you need someone to be at your side.We are all here for you.

Firstly heal your OB it's most important. okay?

If it hurting you too much apply tea tree oil. It should dry the OB really fast.

If the doctor given you any cream  to apply.do apply with a thin layer to allow the cream penetrate into you skin with air.



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Thank you so much for being supportive . I haven't  spoken to my partner since I told him he told me not to contact him what so ever so I haven't . And as far as the outbreak  it's itches bad so I'll apply the tea tree oil and see how  that works for me. The doctor didn't prescribe any cream just pills.

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Oregano oil is good too but you got to mix with vigin coconut oil.

It's will feel burn.

Give him some space and time.

However me and my wife when doctor told us it herpes.We start think how and when...that's wasting time. 

I haven't went for any test yet.

I didn't have any OB too.

To me now it's like..herpes 2.So what.its just some virus going to lead me to much more healthy lifestyle now.

So LLL, focus on your healthy living.

This viruis is nothing.

I had a friend who had cancer stage 4.

I think he would prefer herpes than cancer.


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That's good you have someone there  by your side to support you. Yeah as far as my partner  I thought we were close than he's treating me I understand  he's upset . But th e face that he can't accept me for what's happened let's me know he's not what I thought he was. I think i rather just move on with my life a real friend wouldn't treat you like your disgusting  to them. I'm going to try these remedies and see how they work for me thank you so much

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  • 1 month later...

Hello and your name speaks to your strength. Live Love Laugh is a brilliant philosophy! Nobody said it would be easy!!!!

Unfortunately you learned a very harsh reality about your partner. Life has a way of doing things like that, too bad it was such a harsh lesson.

There is no point of blame here and that would do nothing towards your healing as it changes nothing. This virus lays dormant in us and can be unpredictable. Each individual body deals differently with it. 

You have choices how to treat this Allopathically as most do here or Holistically as some of us do. There are no perfect answers, just individual preferences because you have to live with yourself and your body. 

You will find incredible knowledge regarding Allopathy here with people who have profound experience dealing with this virus. If you choose Holistics I have yrs of experience with that modality and others here have an amazing amount of knowledge to offer towards that to help you find a starting point.

Stay strong and focus on what is important and what to clear your mind of towards healing yourself.

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