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[nice]

Please i need some more people to talk about my relationship n this stuff thats going on i havnt had many responses. Heres the link. Please talk to me 

 

 

[Free73]

I think you have all the answers you need. Move on with your life. You can't force someone to be with you, nor do you want to be with someone that is not sure if they want to be with you.

Do you have children of your own? Because if you date someone who does (like this guy in this case), know that in many cases it will come with it's own set of challenges (like his difficult ex).

[nice]

No I don't have any children. Yer i know its come with challenges alright its been hard n iv fought really hard for this man n now i feel so miserable n unwanted n uncared about. I know iv done nothing wrong. I know what i deserve iv been trying to move on but i dont want anybody else. I'm hoping that he'll come around soon n wel make up again for the 4th time

[SureWhyNot]

If you re-read what you have written the person you really need to care about you is YOU! Wonder why you feel you need and want a person who treats you badly? He seems less worried about what is on his skin than you do. That is very telling. He did not mind blaming, then using you, though you disclosed. As an adult with free will he made his choices and it looks like he is making choices again. His life is his to live his way. Sorry that is not what you want to hear but you should be fighting for you not him!!! Who knows who he is standing in the way of. Perhaps your happiness!!! You deserve the best!

We get over the loss of others in time but losing ourselves is much worse!!!!