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I am recently diagnosed and I am miserable. I've tried everything natural that is "proven" to work and has extremely good reviews. This is my first outbreak and I have had NO symptom relief for almost a month. I've started rubbing alcohol on my outbreak because I am at my wits end. Please, if anyone can help I am open to any advice. 

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Hey thanks for posting, plenty of help available here for you.

Goodness no relief for a month! Can you tell us what is going on?

How were you infected? Was the swab correctly typed? Where are the lesions and how extensive? Are you on antivirals? Are you applying any creams?

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My ex cheated on me unfortunately. As far as I know the swab was correctly typed. I work for a laboratory and we are the ones that ran the test. My doctor put me on acyclovir 1000 milligrams twice a day for a week when I first got diagnosed and I haven't been on anything sense. It seems to be mainly around my backside area. At first they hurt so badly it was hArd for me to find a comfortable way to sit. Now it's moved onto incredibly itchy. It seems that when it starts to clear up, it comes back with vengeance. I've tried tee tree oil, herp-b-gone topical and L-Lysin. I've even gotten a supplement called herpanacine. I've gotten a soap called h balm. Even started taking  multivitamin specifically for immune boosting properties. I feel like I am going crazy!

 

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Unfortunately the first outbreaks typically are the worst and what you read hear that people post that offer them relief may be of no benefit for you for this outbreak. 

Was the L-lysine you mentioned in pill form?  If so I would recommend getting lysine cream, I hear many women say it helps with the itching.

Do what ever you can to boost your immune system, that is the #1 defense against this virus and please believe it will get better with time.  I have had it so long I no longer get outbreaks.

Good luck!

JB 

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The women's health panel that we did came back positive for isolated hsv2. I'm not sure if it's possible to have a false positive or not. I would like to say that I don't have it but when I was diagnosed I had blisters. They punctured the blister and swabbed from the fluid. And yes, the L-lysine I am currently taking is pill form. I'm not exactly sure what you mean by what sex I had the week before. I thought I was in a committed relationship. 

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What I mean was did you have oral and vaginal sex with your partner?

The sores will involve at least the point where the virus entered the body, which will typically be the vagina. Spreading so quickly to the butt is rare although can happen if the virus spreads quickly to all nerve endings.

This must mean your partner has HSV-2; has he tested?

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No, he left me and my daughter in the middle of the night and from what I hear he lives in Mississippi.  I cannot get a hold of him. And then boom I have herpes. Im assuming he knows. 

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On January 29, 2016 at 7:57 PM, Ericak said:

My ex cheated on me unfortunately. As far as I know the swab was correctly typed. I work for a laboratory and we are the ones that ran the test. My doctor put me on acyclovir 1000 milligrams twice a day for a week when I first got diagnosed and I haven't been on anything sense. It seems to be mainly around my backside area. At first they hurt so badly it was hArd for me to find a comfortable way to sit. Now it's moved onto incredibly itchy. It seems that when it starts to clear up, it comes back with vengeance. I've tried tee tree oil, herp-b-gone topical and L-Lysin. I've even gotten a supplement called herpanacine. I've gotten a soap called h balm. Even started taking  multivitamin specifically for immune boosting properties. I feel like I am going crazy!

 

I felt the same then I prayed and tried everything it took perseverance faith and time including education. Oil of oregano work for me directly on the bump or honey and cinnamon.

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On January 29, 2016 at 9:18 PM, Ericak said:

No, he left me and my daughter in the middle of the night and from what I hear he lives in Mississippi.  I cannot get a hold of him. And then boom I have herpes. Im assuming he knows. 

Did you have unprotected sex with him and did he have an outbreak?

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On January 29, 2016 at 8:47 PM, JBnATL said:

Unfortunately the first outbreaks typically are the worst and what you read hear that people post that offer them relief may be of no benefit for you for this outbreak. 

Was the L-lysine you mentioned in pill form?  If so I would recommend getting lysine cream, I hear many women say it helps with the itching.

Do what ever you can to boost your immune system, that is the #1 defense against this virus and please believe it will get better with time.  I have had it so long I no longer get outbreaks.

Good luck!

JB 

JB I have a potential wife however I'm afraid to have unprotected sex with her my out my real was on my lower scrotum so covered can I prevent or is hsv2 in bony fluids and blood

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14 hours ago, Terrell said:

JB I have a potential wife however I'm afraid to have unprotected sex with her my out my real was on my lower scrotum so covered can I prevent or is hsv2 in bony fluids and blood

Hi Terrell;

Don't be afraid to have unprotected sex, although there will always be a risk of transmitting it the risk is quite small.  Most people get this from someone who does not know they have it, not from someone who does.  So as long as she knows the risks and accepts them, there is no reason you can't have a normal sex life with her.  Personally I have dated many women over the years and most of the sex I have had during that time has been unprotected (their choice) and I have never passed this along.  I know many married people who have been married decades and never passed it to their spouse.

Where you had your outbreak has no bearing on where you might transmit this virus from.  The virus lives in your sacral ganglia nerve system and you can transmit the virus from anywhere that nerve system goes.  As long as you use common sense, like avoiding contact when you have an outbreak and take daily antivirals there is no reason you can't have a normal sex life.

Good luck!

JB

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13 hours ago, JBnATL said:

Hi Terrell;

Don't be afraid to have unprotected sex, although there will always be a risk of transmitting it the risk is quite small.  Most people get this from someone who does not know they have it, not from someone who does.  So as long as she knows the risks and accepts them, there is no reason you can't have a normal sex life with her.  Personally I have dated many women over the years and most of the sex I have had during that time has been unprotected (their choice) and I have never passed this along.  I know many married people who have been married decades and never passed it to their spouse.

Where you had your outbreak has no bearing on where you might transmit this virus from.  The virus lives in your sacral ganglia nerve system and you can transmit the virus from anywhere that nerve system goes.  As long as you use common sense, like avoiding contact when you have an outbreak and take daily antivirals there is no reason you can't have a normal sex life.

Good luck!

JB

Thanks for the coaching I really love her and I believe feels the same.

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On January 30, 2016 at 8:45 PM, JBnATL said:

Hi Terrell;

Don't be afraid to have unprotected sex, although there will always be a risk of transmitting it the risk is quite small.  Most people get this from someone who does not know they have it, not from someone who does.  So as long as she knows the risks and accepts them, there is no reason you can't have a normal sex life with her.  Personally I have dated many women over the years and most of the sex I have had during that time has been unprotected (their choice) and I have never passed this along.  I know many married people who have been married decades and never passed it to their spouse.

Where you had your outbreak has no bearing on where you might transmit this virus from.  The virus lives in your sacral ganglia nerve system and you can transmit the virus from anywhere that nerve system goes.  As long as you use common sense, like avoiding contact when you have an outbreak and take daily antivirals there is no reason you can't have a normal sex life.

Good luck!

JB

Started oil of oregano today and Manuka honey instead of anti virals .... What do you know about oil of oregano. I am also In a sexual relationship since June. Should I continue with anti virals? I want a break from them

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I know very little about oil of oregano.  This website has a key word search function so if you search on it you should find all the posts that others have made on it.

Antivirals do reduce the risk and I take them when I am dating a non Herpster so it is up to you and your partner on if you want to get off of them.

Good luck!

JB

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On 2016-01-27 at 6:53 PM, Ericak said:

I am recently diagnosed...This is my first outbreak and I have had NO symptom relief for almost a month. I've started rubbing alcohol on my outbreak because I am at my wits end.

Hey there,

When I was first diagnosed, I very frequently had symptoms last up to three weeks - the first year can be tough, but it will get better. After the first 6 months, the severity of the outbreaks lessened. After a year since diagnosis, it took almost 9 months for the next major outbreak to show up!

What I did not do was take antivirals...so, my recommendation for you, is to try to take suppressive pills if you want to lessen the symptoms. The pills are supposed to shorten the outbreak time, and make the outbreak itself more tolerable. Speak to your doctor about them!

If you want to tough it out, you can try putting aloe vera on the sores (I imagine alcohol hurts a lot...). There are also topical lysine cream you could try to use.

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1 hour ago, JBnATL said:

I know very little about oil of oregano.  This website has a key word search function so if you search on it you should find all the posts that others have made on it.

Antivirals do reduce the risk and I take them when I am dating a non Herpster so it is up to you and your partner on if you want to get off of them.

Good luck!

JB

What if I did one week oil of oregano one week anti virals ?

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1 minute ago, Scared12345 said:

What if I did one week oil of oregano one week anti virals ?

To my knowledge there is no studies done on this combination.  If you do the search maybe you will find some studies done on oil of oregano and I would say taking any antivirals would be more beneficial than not taking nothing.

JB

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10 hours ago, JBnATL said:

To my knowledge there is no studies done on this combination.  If you do the search maybe you will find some studies done on oil of oregano and I would say taking any antivirals would be more beneficial than not taking nothing.

JB

I wanted to go more natural. Maybe il so 200 mg anti virals and oil of oregano 

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12 hours ago, Scared12345 said:

@JBnATL some people don't use anything at all right ?

Correct.  You aren't contagious all the time and the longer you have it the less you are contagious.  If you know you have this virus and can tell when an outbreak is about to pop up, then most people avoid sex during that time.  Most people get this from someone who does not know they have it, not from someone who does.

Good luck!

JB

 

12 hours ago, Scared12345 said:

@JBnATL some people don't use anything at all right ?

 

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I don't know when I'm getting an OB or if I ever had a second one. I want to get this under control before I live with a man . I want to take a break from anti virals and not rely on them of i go away on vacation. 

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