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Hello everyone… nice to meet you all…

Ugh… haven’t been tested yet and I suppose an “Unhealthy” dose of denial, finally coming to terms, that and the blatant sores on the lip and umm blah sucks… still having my first outbreak… not so bad so far (know I just JYNX’D myself 4life ><)… doesn’t hurt so bad… not compared to the pain of my girl not telling me and then running off *sigh*... didn’t even get the chance to say I didn’t blame her but anyhoo ; ;

Eh sorry just feeling down… and thought I’d try something more positive then dreading my newly acquired (and most unwelcome) friend lol…

So how’s everyone else doing ^^

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Shayna Platinum Support Member

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Other than that Mrs. Lincoln, How did you like the play? :lol:

Sorry for what you're going through! The initial shock and dread is the worst...You will start to feel better.

Take care n nice to meet you too ;)

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sorry to hear about your situation. shame on your gf for not telling and then running; maybe somebody who is no good for you anyway. It is always painful in the beginning, mentally and physically. this forum will give you lots of information and support; hang in there.

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starphyse Established Member

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Hello everyone… nice to meet you all…

Ugh… haven’t been tested yet and I suppose an “Unhealthy” dose of denial, finally coming to terms, that and the blatant sores on the lip and umm blah sucks… still having my first outbreak… not so bad so far (know I just JYNX’D myself 4life ><)… doesn’t hurt so bad… not compared to the pain of my girl not telling me and then running off *sigh*... didn’t even get the chance to say I didn’t blame her but anyhoo ; ;

Eh sorry just feeling down… and thought I’d try something more positive then dreading my newly acquired (and most unwelcome) friend lol…

So how’s everyone else doing ^^

Lip sores don't sound that bad and if you happen to have hsv2 on your mouth your shouldn't even worry outbreaks usally don't happen. Sucks for the first time though but everyone here will support you best we can if you need us. Good luck on getting tested.

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Lip sores don't sound that bad and if you happen to have hsv2 on your mouth your shouldn't even worry outbreaks usally don't happen. Sucks for the first time though but everyone here will support you best we can if you need us. Good luck on getting tested.

I have known my gf for a long time but I've been seeing her for about a week. She has told me that she has herpes.

I've always been careful with sex but feel I'm out of my depth and not knowing what I'm getting into.

I'm not about to bail on her as judging people is not my idea of a relationship.

I know there are risks involved but I'm concerned with the link the encaphelitis.

My brother was out of action for months at a time for four years as a result of suspected encaphelitis.

I saw what it did to him and it scares me.

What I need is some good advise and some hard facts.

She's the first person I've felt serious about for a long time and I don't want to make any mistakes.

Can someone please put my mind at ease that I'm not jumping into quicksand.

She really is great and doesn't deserve to be judged or stigmatised.

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Thats a great attitude to have. She is very lucky to have someone like you. I am like you in many ways I have a gf that is hsv2 positive as well. I date her and have unprotected sex with her willingly knowing what could happen. If there is love it always wins over all odds.

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