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Tess1986

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So here's my story back in March of last year I went to the hospital because I had an ulcer looking lesion on my labia which I originally thought was a uti till I looked more closely at where the worst pain was originating. Anyways they took urine sample said they did std testing and that everything came back clear and that ulcer was just caused from too much sex. Fast forward to almost a year later and had what I thought was a uti last Monday only to have horrible pain during a bm, started looking around and seen lesions all over my butt area, as well as ulcer looking spots on my labia again. Go to er once again tell them what's going on want std testing to confirm to get on something they tell me everything came back fine and follow up with my pcm. So called Doctor today because the pain is so bad she takes one look says its herpes puts me on the one that starts with an "a" and I'm like what do I do about the pain is there a cream or something she's like no just take this and it should help them heal faster. I have been crying it hurts so bad I don't want to go poop to be honest because that's where most of it is not to mention everytime I pee it hits the ulcer thing and burns so bad. I can't sleep, I don't know what to do on top of all this dr told me today the er never did any std testing last year like they told me they did so I've most likely had it for almost a year with the being my first real outbreak. I have a boyfriend I've been with for almost a year and we don't use protection as we are exclusive and I was under the impression all my std testing came back clear back in March, so how do I tell him without him thinking I'm cheating as everyone has always cheated on him in the past ☹☹☹

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Hi Tess.  Just tell your bf everything you just told us.  It wasn't your fault, so don't feel guilty about anything.  You didn't do anything intentionally or wrong.  Obviously, he should get tested now and be sure to ask for herpes testing b/c it is not included in a full STD panel.  Then you need to learn about this virus and how it affects your body and what you can do (or not do) to avoid further outbreaks.  There is plenty of information here and really supportive members to help you along.

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I agree with above. Also, it's possible you got it from your current boyfriend. (He might not know he has it, as most people who have it don't show any symptoms and standard STD tests don't include herpes tests.) Just have an open and honest conversation with him, and tell him to get tested. 

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Thank you guys so much. This site has already been helpful I went and bought dermaplast(sp) the pain spray and this is the first time I've been able to lay down or sit down since last Monday where I don't want to die. 

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15 hours ago, Tess1986 said:

So here's my story back in March of last year I went to the hospital because I had an ulcer looking lesion on my labia which I originally thought was a uti till I looked more closely at where the worst pain was originating. Anyways they took urine sample said they did std testing and that everything came back clear and that ulcer was just caused from too much sex. Fast forward to almost a year later and had what I thought was a uti last Monday only to have horrible pain during a bm, started looking around and seen lesions all over my butt area, as well as ulcer looking spots on my labia again. Go to er once again tell them what's going on want std testing to confirm to get on something they tell me everything came back fine and follow up with my pcm. So called Doctor today because the pain is so bad she takes one look says its herpes puts me on the one that starts with an "a" and I'm like what do I do about the pain is there a cream or something she's like no just take this and it should help them heal faster. I have been crying it hurts so bad I don't want to go poop to be honest because that's where most of it is not to mention everytime I pee it hits the ulcer thing and burns so bad. I can't sleep, I don't know what to do on top of all this dr told me today the er never did any std testing last year like they told me they did so I've most likely had it for almost a year with the being my first real outbreak. I have a boyfriend I've been with for almost a year and we don't use protection as we are exclusive and I was under the impression all my std testing came back clear back in March, so how do I tell him without him thinking I'm cheating as everyone has always cheated on him in the past ☹☹☹

Tell him after prayer the same was you conveyed it here you were honest.

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