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Crazy ride started in December. May lose the love of my life. He's trying but no sex or a real kiss since the first of December. We love each other but this is making me crazy. I've ran 3 times since. Can't take the rejection. And somehow he feels rejected.... I'll be 40 in a few weeks. Good job I hate. Basically healthy and loved by many. Feel dirty as hell. And like less of a woman.

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This doesn't sound good! No real need for herpes to make anyone feel like this. What is going on? Do either of you have an issue with herpes?

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It would appear that I may have it. I honestly don't wanna go into the do I/don't I of it. If so, I believe the cheating ex husband did this. I met this wonderful man in July. We just fit. A dr told me after the divorce that I tested very low for HSV 2 antibodies. But, in my twenties I had the most horrific OBs on my nose. I mean, my nose looked like a meat grinder got it. So dr said... "It's not genital Bc you've never had symptoms." That was 2 years ago. 6 weeks after sex with new guy.... Something popped up. I freaked. Had a swab apparently might have been too late. Came back negative. Guy says he's been tested Bc he has Lyme and he's clean. Says he was tested again a month ago. Still negative. I've explained it's not standard testing. Unbeknownst to him, I called his clinic. Nope. They dont test for herpes unless Dr says. He says he specified. I do believe though, that he is so scared that he would go the "ignorance is bliss" route. This is tearing us apart. And we love each other

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Hmmm I don't understand. As my old dad used to say "is there a cow in the ditch or not"!

There is no real evidence here that you have HSV-2. Your nose affliction would not be HSV-2. His status is unknown.

Coming back to that ditch, either you want to know or you don't, either is acceptable. Why is that tearing you apart. I doubt it is, are you sure this is a cover for other issues?

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I had another small almost painless group of about 3 blisters 2 weeks, ago. Along with the pinching pain in my buttock. The test 2 years ago was low, but still a positive. 

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Yes but is there a cow in the ditch? Just mutually test with your current partner for all STDs including HSV.

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