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Not so bad after all!... Looking for support in the DMV (any FB groups)


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Hello 

I live in the DMV/Baltimore area and was diagnosed a little over a year ago. I only have like two penpals but no one really here in area. A couple of people I've met are still on the downside of the news. I'm more so coming to terms with it and accepting it as one of my truths. This has made me happier. So... Now I'm more so looking for positive 'positives' who still enjoy life and see how they date and manage normal life changes (marriage, child-bearing, prevention and suppression). I also feel like I have a calling for outreach, so also feel free to chat with me:) Peace

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Here is one group that I hope isn't too far from you:

http://metrodchelp.org/

I can help you get into the secret Herpster FB groups which there are hundreds.  Most of these groups are NOT support groups, but just fun groups to meet other Herpsters.  Many are based in geography and I am sure there is one near you.  There is one main group called Swirls which has over 4,900 Herpsters in it.  Swirls also has a list of all the other groups so you can find the one near you.

Although these groups are secret and your friends won't see that you have joined them and if you post in a group it does not show up on your timeline, most people create a 2nd FB profile to join them.  They use their real first name and the name of city as their last.  I can get you into Swirls if you want.  When you have the profile you want to join them with, send me a PM and I will send you a link to my fake profile.  We have to be FB friends first for me to add you to Swirls.

Good luck!

JB

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