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Zorojg11

Although I've had negative blood test and swabs out to 6 weeks, (I know early ) if I received oral from a girl and contacted genital herpes would I be having back to back outbreaks and non stop symptoms? I've been having sex with my gf since I made the worst mistake of my life, and she hasn't caught anything? Aren't you most contagious early in infection? I also had a red area appear on my penis that turned shiny and went away in less than 24 hours,, I go back to the dr in a few days, but this is all beggining to overwhelm me and I've never been so sad my whole life, I'm a hypochondriac but these symptoms are real, I suppose 

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Zorojg11

And I'm not a heartless jerk, I told my gf everything and she says I'm over reacting 

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WilsoInAus

A pure case of imaginitis.

If you were infected with herpes then you'd have had bad sores over Mr Happy. Added to this, swabs negative, blood negative... what is it going to take?

Look, most of us know the feeling. You're punishing yourself over this. However it starts to look like self absorbing and self pity. Move on for her sake, OK?

 

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Zorojg11

I've had symptoms, like back to back weeks my thighs will itch and have bumps, last night it was itchy but no bumps this morning , I don't know

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Free73

I recommend that you find someone who has herpes and ask them to infect you. That way, at least you can finally get over your anxiety and test positive. Until then, please delete your profile and get back to living

 

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Thanks guys and free , you do have a point man, either I have it or I don't but I'm really tired of worrying about this

Wilso you make a good point as well, I'm just having crazy sensations that haven't stopped, and when that red area appeared it sent me to hell mentally 

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Zorojg11

I just read a topic on medhelp where a guy met a girl at the grocery store , got a blowjob and had protected sex, and he got hsv2, I'm so scared 

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WilsoInAus

a) HSV-2 transfers from the genital sexual contact, not oral sex

b) no relevance to you, it has been established you are negative and do not have genital herpes

Time to move on mate and help yourself.

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Zorojg11

Terri warren said since it was a sex worker that did oral on me , the chance is good I may have hsv2,? After drinking alcohol i think I had an outbreak on both my thighs and a red spot on my penis that turned shiny and went away over night? I read alcohol is a trigger and stress and riding a bike and that's what I did,,

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Free73

Try standing on your head and spinning four times. It has to be four times though. If that triggers an outbreak, then it's definitely herpes

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Zorojg11

The break out looked like pimples and hives , but I work outside and idk if it's coincidence but I wore pants with rips in them and right where my skin was exposed is where the hives came about , I went to the er and the dr said not herpes even the spot on my penis, the area was flooded where I work and i used soap that I don't normally use, but I think it was h because it was preceded by itching and I think I had white discharge, or it was the baby powder crusted around the uretha,, idk;(

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1 hour ago, Zorojg11 said:

Terri warren said since it was a sex worker that did oral on me , the chance is good I may have hsv2,? After drinking alcohol i think I had an outbreak on both my thighs and a red spot on my penis that turned shiny and went away over night? I read alcohol is a trigger and stress and riding a bike and that's what I did,, but it was oral so it will be hsv1 genital if anything.  

 

@Zorojg11 if she did have oral hsv then a blow job would guve you genital hsv1 not hsv2.  Just because shes a sex worker doesnt mean she has herpes.  Howvabout you get tested after 3 months and come back to us.   Or go to the dr and get your spot swabbed. 

1 hour ago, Zorojg11 said:

The break out looked like pimples and hives , but I work outside and idk if it's coincidence but I wore pants with rips in them and right where my skin was exposed is where the hives came about , I went to the er and the dr said not herpes even the spot on my penis, the area was flooded where I work and i used soap that I don't normally use, but I think it was h because it was preceded by itching and I think I had white discharge, or it was the baby powder crusted around the uretha,, idk;(

A heat rash more than likely.  

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Zorojg11

Thanks guys for the input , I had a dream I got kicked off this site , lol...so I'd better chill with posting ....I also had a dream I found a huge herpes thing on my thigh with blisters all over me and my gf started doing porn....wtf is going on ....:/

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Free73

Man I think you need to take a holiday somewhere warm and just chill out. You will give yourself an ulcer the way you are going

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Lisajd

You are creating the symptoms in your mind because you are obsessing about it.  Go back to the doctor and get a blood test done after 3 weeks from infection and that's your safest beds and you'll know one way or the other

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Zorojg11

Dr said test only 70 -80 percent at 6 weeks but thinks I can live with a little uncertainty, and to test agin when I calm down, I have had sores many sores but the Drs always say it's not herpes and swab come negative , I had a break out a few weeks back and it was red bumps on both thighs and butt and a red area on penis that went away over one day,,and this happened after I drank  alcohol and stress , but my gf hasn't caught anything is the only thing that gives me hope, she knows I think I have it so I'm not unknowingly risking her health

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Zorojg11

Ok spoke to my aunt who's an NP, and she let me speak on the phone to the dr she works with, very nice of him, here's what I learned

-forget about hsv2 it's extremely rare to be on someone's mouth even a sex worker,

-in the absence of cold sores on the givers mouth, you have to use the percent of shedding as to if you were infected , which is 10-18 percent for hsv1

- just because I had NGU doesn't mean I have herpes, she could have simply had a sore throat or yucky teeth, even masturbating with filthy hands will do it

- a test at 6 weeks is a good indicator just not conclusive 

-told me to relax 

i just see everyone happy around me and I'm very depressed , the dr prescribed Buproprion and it hasn't kicked in yet,

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