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 When I was 22 years old, I started dating a man 21 years older than me.  I had only been with my college boyfriend, so I wasn't very experienced.  The older man told me he had had a vasectomy and that I didn't have to worry about getting pregnant...STD's didn't even enter my mind.  About 3 weeks later, I thought I was dying.  I ended up in the hospital unable to urinate and with dehydration.  After a couple of days, the doctor diagnosed me with herpes (HSV 2).  I cried and cried.  I began depression medicine...I wanted to die.  I thought my life was over.  The man promised he had no idea...but I think he did.  We continued to date....mainly because I thought no one else would want me.  We later broke up because he didn't want to get married again...and he didn't want to get his vasectomy reversed.  I didn't date much after that and when I did, I would find a way to end our relationship before it got serious.  Finally, I met a good guy and got up the nerve to tell him...through lots of tears.  He just smiled and told me he thought I was going to tell him I had AIDS.  We later married and had 2 children.  As far as I know, in 16 years of marriage, I never gave him herpes.  

We have recently divorced due to reasons that have nothing to do with herpes.  I'm 44 years old and really not wanting to go through getting up the nerve to tell guys again.  I know everything will be ok...I'm just dreading it.

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2 hours ago, siennabale234 said:

I am here to give my testimony about a doctor who helped me in my life. I was infected with HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS in 2014, i went to many hospitals for cure but there was no solution, so I was thinking how can I get a solution out so that my body can be okay. One day I was in the river side thinking where I can go to get solution. so a lady walked to me telling me why am I so sad and i open up all to her telling her my problem, she told me that she can help me out, she introduce me to a doctor who uses herbal medication to cure HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS and gave me his email, so i mail him. He told me all the things I need to do and also give me instructions to take, which I followed properly. Before I knew what is happening after two weeks the HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS that was in my body got vanished . so if you are also heart broken and also need a help, you can also email him at ( dragbadilaguspelltemple@gmail.com ) rather visit his website at http://dr-agbadi-home-of-solution.webs.com/ or whatapp +2347031991061

Gtfo of here 

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