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OH MY GOD! How crazy to see that title...

OK - maybe I should give you guys the rundown...

There are about 6 guys who I am "talking" too. I've only met one - the doc -

CRAZY! (hope to God he doesn't read this and figure out it's me - it would be my luck!) Let's just say, he was intriguing and scary in the same sentence! Literally! Smack dab in the middle of an in-depth conversation he asks me "when was your last orgasm" freaky....

So for the men reading this - do not try this at home boys!

I said on a different post that I haven't put a pic on my bio - "to keep the flys off" I like to say!....So I like to think the people who respond are thoughtful, at least.

the others, well, theres the other doctor (my friend calls "doctor love" :lol: ) a super-nice "sporty" guy (who responded because he "liked what I said"), a real "city" boy, and a new guy I'm finding very interesting. Said I was very "pretty" after I shared a pic...(OK, I'll admit - I love that).

Funniest was the guy who opened with "hello there pretty lady..." as a response to my ad with no pic - helloooo!!!!!!

So I'm a little gun shy after the date with the sexual deviant..... makes for a great story though - and he keeps calling so I must have done something right! (or terribly wrong) I told him he was a little scary and he said it was his sense of humor - and he'd tone it down.... we'll see. Honestly my big concern is that he doesn't seem to appreciate my being a mom - aside of course, from freaking me out! :wink:

Funniest part - my "x" boyfriend, who calls everyday, LOVES my daughter and wants to see me every spare moment I have, but has his personal issues with relationships (boy I can pick 'em) - tells me yesterday that he got a cold sore the other day - gets them ocasionally when he's run down, been happening for years..... this after he told me he got tested and doesn't have herpes - what do you think?

Sad part. None of these guys can compare to him. PERFECT gentleman, intelligent, thoughtful, honest, incredibly sexy, georgeous, I'm killing myself trying to pull away. He loves that I'm a good mom - 'nuff said. I got it bad.

wish me luck.

I'll keep you posted. :wink:

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OK guys - I've decided to keep you informed so that I can #1 vent, and #2 maybe show someone else on the site it's not all that bad.....

So I came in to work this morning to 6 e-mails - 4 new, 1 from the Doc, 1 from the City boy - who seems really cool actually. The Doc is trying to get me to go out again - "to make up for..." he asked me to "lunch" - could be harmless... As for the new guys - some with potential. One was very negative. Can't have that now! Another was a high progile "legal professional" hope he doesn't check out my driving record!!!

It's all bittersweet - it's great to know there are SO many people out there who are possibly interested in you - but then, there's Doc........ Oh Man - it would be nice to at least find a few friends to appreciate my humor! Talk about a needle in a haystack!!! :wink:

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P.S. Did Santa give your daughter all 3 presents?

Sorry Faith - didn't see that last time...

Oh yes, 3 and more! I told her Santa gives the REALLY good kids extra presents! I have a feeling I'll be playing Hungry Hippos and Tea Party for a very long time!

I had to wake her - I said "go see if Santa came" and she said "no, you go!" and pulled the covers over her head!!! How funny is that.

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I had to wake her - I said "go see if Santa came" and she said "no' date=' you go!" and pulled the covers over her head!!! How funny is that.[/quote']

LOL... She is your baby.......... :D

That natural sense of humour runs in your family!!!

Faith

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Update:

Had a date with the "city guy" - he was actually NORMAL! My faith has been restored. He told me he was taking me out Saturday whether I wanted to or not..... so I guess he didn't like me very much! :D

We'll see.....

I hate to tell you Faith, but MY Mom had the same sense of humor - you are right. It does run in the family - I think it's called psychosis!

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I hate to tell you Faith' date=' but MY Mom had the same sense of humor - you are right. It does run in the family - I think it's called psychosis![/quote']

I don't know what to call it... but.. something about how you talk, and something about those ideas you get, just tickle me. :D If I'm surrounded by you and your mom and your daughter, I'll laugh to death. LOL

Happy New Year, Lasmom!!

And thank you -always-

Faith

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Hey guys...

Went out with "city boy" last night - he is wonderful - respectful, happy, cute, loving, sexy, thoughtful, understanding.... I feel like I got really lucky. He has happy eyes - like what you would expect Santa to have! I woke up happy for the first time in months. I'm not in love - yet....

Came in this morning - 5 new replies. Now what? :shock:

Moral of the story - I'm finding that not only am I not alone, but there are WAY too many people out there with this, who are more thoughtful towards possible partners because of it. Today I feel lucky that I have it. Never thought I'd say that.

Truth be told. People on this site convinced me to try the other. I'm glad I did - thank you to all.

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Today I feel lucky that I have it.

Ahhhhhhh what a great story!!

And I'm soooooo happy to hear you say that, cuz it's true!!!!!

Life is cool... Life is fair..

When we get something bad, we get something good at the same time! Because, they are only opposite sides of one thing!

A big sadness is just an opposite face of a big happiness....!!

Ahh... You made me smile!!!! A big smile!!! :D:D:D

Faith

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OK people.

I'm thrilled to report that "city guy" is a definate keeper. My friends LOVE him. My daughter LOVES him (met him briefly) and I'm just crazy about him. I went on line and removed my ad from the dating site, to find him online doing the same! Turns out we both want to see how things progress with each other.

I told the other men that I was taking a break to give this a shot and got so many supportive replies from the guys I said goodbye to I was shocked! It was hard to do. I felt like I broke up with 8 guys in 10 minutes! Big problem huh? - if I wasn't so sensitive about hurting people it would have been easier.

It was so worth it! (meeting City guy I mean - not breaking up with all those guys... :-()

Again, thanks to my friends here, you know who you are, who helped me find the confidence in going forward. It's the only way to go.

God bless.

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I told the other men that I was taking a break to give this a shot and got so many supportive replies from the guys I said goodbye to I was shocked! It was hard to do. I felt like I broke up with 8 guys in 10 minutes! Big problem huh? - if I wasn't so sensitive about hurting people it would have been easier.

yeah, but if all you ever do is be honest with everyone at all times, noone gets 'really' hurt.

90% of people are so cool and understanding when you are just honest with them.

If you are honest with people... they can make informed decisions... they will keep their expectations of you 'accurate' because you were honest with them..

If they do start to 'hope' for more... yeah, they might be dissappointed, but again, if you were always honest.. most people will recognize that it was themselves who put them in the position to get hurt, not you.

Cool!!!

(you still owe me a beer though!) LOL

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Would I forget you?

Time, place or address. I'll send you a case from the Harpoon Brewery or maybe some "Sam Adams" from Boston :wink:

About your first comment, I feel guilty about it even so - catholic guilt I guess. Don't quote me on any Catholic stuff though, my priest is one of the big names in jail.... so wonderful to see someone in handcuffs you once gave confession to...... :evil:

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I feel guilty about it even so

Nah... That's not guilt... Guilt is if you know you did something wrong...

Its compassion and empathy.... You feel bad because you care, and because you know how they feel.

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from Boston

Boston or Bahw-Stin?

Do you have a new-england accent???? :p

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Boston or Bahw-Stin?

Do you have a new-england accent???? :p

Bahw-stin would make me from the south. Here it's more Ba-stin.

A little I guess... but not that bad. My mom was on us about pronouncing things... (the nuns got to her) Funny thing is the closer you live to the city, the less of an accent you have. I'm from 15, 20 minutes out, my friend is about an hour and I'm constantly harrassing her.

I'm glad you didn't say Hah-vid Yahd.... I've heard enough of that!

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I told the other men that I was taking a break to give this a shot and got so many supportive replies from the guys I said goodbye to I was shocked! It was hard to do. I felt like I broke up with 8 guys in 10 minutes! Big problem huh? - if I wasn't so sensitive about hurting people it would have been easier.

See? If you are a caring person, caring people come around you!!

This law is so reasonable...

And don't worry.. they cared about you by giving you supportive words. They also are destined to be happy.. <smile>

You were honest, confident, and had positive attitude (in a very unique way LOL) already when you first came here. You just didn't realize how good you already were.

I'm not surprised at that this great thing is happening to you.... :D

Faith

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You know, he came over last night. HHHMMM......woke me up with kisses.... (sorry - cloud 9 is a crazy place!)

The fact that we both have HSV2 comes up in casual conversation - like we're talking about the chicken pox, or acne. It's a relief to just be yourself knowing the other person (and I'm quoting) "can't wait to wake up in your arms" - OK, the guys may think that he sounds sappy, but know: he tracked all kinds of mud through my kitchen when he came in - damn workboots! Proof that real MEN can make you melt with a few words (boys - are you listening???) In fact, the mix of the two is incredible.

I have found that for me, being with someone else who has it, understands it, accepts it, makes "it" go away. Or at least not be the focus of my worry. Wonderful people (and horrible people like the Doc, unfortuneately) have this. Most people taking the time to read this stuff we write here are on the wonderful side - why? because you care enough to ask, worry, share and teach.

You thought I was going to say "care enough to send the very best" huh? :D Sappy...... :wink:

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