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Sanguine108

nice!

For as crappy as I felt in the beginning playing/singing w my guitar, writing/journaling and occasionally writing poems helped me a lot.  Singing has been big sanity savior.   

Herpes sucks but the art is awesome! <3  Thanks for and please keep sharing! :)  

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