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Hello im new to this so ill get straight to the point ill been with my husband for 7 years we have a child together.when we first meet we were together 2 mths we had unprotected sex for a while then i found out i had hsv 2 but he stayed with me he was negative at the time and just recently he told me i gave it to him in a heated argument he barely talks to me we have sex 4x a year every 3 months hes rude mean and lazy...i think he mads at me because i gave it to him n feels like were stuck together now n he knows i wont leave because of what i have. Only my best friend knows i have it im ashamed to tell anyone else what i have and that i gave it to him.....please help

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8 minutes ago, hayfever313 said:

Hello im new to this so ill get straight to the point ill been with my husband for 7 years we have a child together.when we first meet we were together 2 mths we had unprotected sex for a while then i found out i had hsv 2 but he stayed with me he was negative at the time and just recently he told me i gave it to him in a heated argument he barely talks to me we have sex 4x a year every 3 months hes rude mean and lazy...i think he mads at me because i gave it to him n feels like were stuck together now n he knows i wont leave because of what i have. Only my best friend knows i have it im ashamed to tell anyone else what i have and that i gave it to him.....please help

Where you on antiviral when you infected him? Howdoes he know he has it? 

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I didnt know i had it until i had my first outbreak but before him i dated this guy who ex girlfriend had it...we both got tested 

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Well.  

4 hours ago, hayfever313 said:

Hello im new to this so ill get straight to the point ill been with my husband for 7 years we have a child together.when we first meet we were together 2 mths we had unprotected sex for a while then i found out i had hsv 2 but he stayed with me he was negative at the time and just recently he told me i gave it to him in a heated argument he barely talks to me we have sex 4x a year every 3 months hes rude mean and lazy...i think he mads at me because i gave it to him n feels like were stuck together now n he knows i wont leave because of what i have. Only my best friend knows i have it im ashamed to tell anyone else what i have and that i gave it to him.....please help

If I were you, I would be sweet to him.  Think of all the good times every time you see him.  Life is about choices.  I am glad I left my ex wife but ours was beyond repair in my mind.  

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