Had a falling out with my best friend, she used my herpes against me

[ifwinterends]

She said to me "Good luck with your herpes." This was in an argument, the very end of an argument, so it was supposed to be mean. It cut at first, and I felt shitty about myself. But then I realized she was going to constantly get turned down by men herself because she catfishes them with old and more flattering photos where she weighed a lot less (this legit happened already), so I'd rather get turned down because of HSV than because of what I look like. Also, she's lazy, spoiled, stuck living back at home with her mentally ill family after leeching off of me for a while, and going nowhere with her life (whereas I'm in college with friends, working towards a degree and a positive future and many other great things). I know this sounds harsh, but after all she put me through, I have no respect for her. And I'm glad the only thing she can insult me with is the fact that I caught a disease there's not really a good way of avoiding if you want to be sexually active (plus she's slept with twice as many men as I have, so it wasn't even a "you're a !*@*" dig).

I know this might scare people not to trust others, but you should. I don't regret telling her. The only thing I regret is she knows my herpes, so I can't venmo request her the $1500 she owes me very passive aggresivly without risking her retaliating with the herpes. 

Even better, she's currently partying in Atlantic City while she owes me that $1500. Goddamn do I wish I could make her burn, but I guess the future will be enough of a revenge: in ten years, I'll have a job and a life and a positive relationship and friends and a life of my own, and she'll be just like her mother, a cheap !*@* who never worked a day in her life, dependent on all of the men she needed, always miserable and always the biggest loser. So, fuck you. She said to me "I won't be a loser forever but you will." Lol bitch you dropped out of BEAUTY SCHOOL, community college, have no job, no good looks, no future, barely any friends, a toxic family, no work either, no personal ethic. Lol I might always have herpes but I'd rather that forever than ever be you.

God this is so bitchy but fuck those awful friends who think they're better than you just because you found out you have herpes and they didn't. 

[Disc0rdant]

48 minutes ago, ifwinterends said:

She said to me "Good luck with your herpes." This was in an argument, the very end of an argument, so it was supposed to be mean. It cut at first, and I felt shitty about myself. But then I realized she was going to constantly get turned down by men herself because she catfishes them with old and more flattering photos where she weighed a lot less (this legit happened already), so I'd rather get turned down because of HSV than because of what I look like. Also, she's lazy, spoiled, stuck living back at home with her mentally ill family after leeching off of me for a while, and going nowhere with her life (whereas I'm in college with friends, working towards a degree and a positive future and many other great things). I know this sounds harsh, but after all she put me through, I have no respect for her. And I'm glad the only thing she can insult me with is the fact that I caught a disease there's not really a good way of avoiding if you want to be sexually active (plus she's slept with twice as many men as I have, so it wasn't even a "you're a !*@*" dig).

I know this might scare people not to trust others, but you should. I don't regret telling her. The only thing I regret is she knows my herpes, so I can't venmo request her the $1500 she owes me very passive aggresivly without risking her retaliating with the herpes. 

Even better, she's currently partying in Atlantic City while she owes me that $1500. Goddamn do I wish I could make her burn, but I guess the future will be enough of a revenge: in ten years, I'll have a job and a life and a positive relationship and friends and a life of my own, and she'll be just like her mother, a cheap !*@* who never worked a day in her life, dependent on all of the men she needed, always miserable and always the biggest loser. So, fuck you. She said to me "I won't be a loser forever but you will." Lol bitch you dropped out of BEAUTY SCHOOL, community college, have no job, no good looks, no future, barely any friends, a toxic family, no work either, no personal ethic. Lol I might always have herpes but I'd rather that forever than ever be you.

God this is so bitchy but fuck those awful friends who think they're better than you just because you found out you have herpes and they didn't. 

You sound upset that a friend was lost.  Sometimes they come back around.  Sometimes they don't.  I had a falling out with a friend because I decided I didnt want him to even be a casual friend anymore.  He is really negative and I found out a girl I was dating was a friend of his.  She was his neighbor and he told me that she had guys over there all the time.  She told me he was chasing her.  Once I put 2 and 2 together and figured out who she was, I decided to tell her.  Pretty antithetical to say stuff about a girl then chase.  She kind of believed me, then didnt.  He also told me another girl had herpes.  Just says shit that is none of his business.  So stuff happens.  I torched him on purpose.  Girl told me she didnt want to see me cause he was her "friend".  Yeah, right.  A friend that will tell everybody everything whether private or not.  She told me he had zero chance w her so doing it was tactical.  If he had a chance, I wouldve let it be.  I know he said shit like I was a terrible boss, etc...  It is what he does.  Eliminating negative people from my life has been good.  Life is too short to wallow in pain or misery.

Humans will often let you down.  

[LWestCoast]

On 3/13/2017 at 10:18 PM, ifwinterends said:

 

God this is so bitchy but fuck those awful friends who think they're better than you just because you found out you have herpes and they didn't. 

Amen to that