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Hey all,

Wondering if there are any ladies out there who have found it permanently painful to have sex due to inflammation of the cervix. How about discharge that doesn't go away?

These are some of my worst fears lately and they have been really vexing me, despite telling myself its going to get better. I'm worried about future relationships, my ability to have sex, etc. 

I got past the original complications of burning and itching that I got when I first got diagnosed about 6 months ago. I thought THAT would never go away but to my supreme relief it did. I never had any of the classic skin outbreak symptoms  but I did experience increased discharge which never left and is driving me crazy.. I've also had issues with abdominal pressure and menstrual like cramps.

They have gotten worse this past month. I went to several gynocologists to see about potential herpes-related cervicitis. One looked and said she saw no outbreaks or signs of inflammation, but did see a spot of irritation on the endothelium on my cervix that could have caused some brownish discharge which has happened a couple times to me since being diagnosed (spotting?). She said this was "normal" but not so sure I trust this definition from doctors these days. The other gyno said my cervix looked like one of someone who has been on birth control. I don't know what this means. I should have asked. She placed me on antifungal for yeast (even though I didn't have yeast in the test, she said the tests don't always work) and also birth control, in case hormones could correct the problem (seems counterintuitive but I'm willing to try anything). 

Well, the cramps have just started getting worse and it even hurts when I move around. The discharge is getting worse now too. The gynos assured me it was okay to have sex, and I have before with my longterm bf since I've gotten this virus with no complications. But this time around it was painful! And the pain throbbed even afterwards. Now I'm also having blood tainted discharge again. It feels like I should just be having my period, but maybe the hormones are stopping it. 

So, for any ladies that have had cervicitis related complications, does this sound at all familiar? Did it eventually clear for any of you? Was there anything you found that helped? I am going to quit the birth control as soon as this packs up since it could be irritating the problem. But the problem still remains. I'm really hoping it corrects itself naturally like the original skin complications did but I'm worried about internal chronic damage and imbalance. 

Thanks everyone for your help 

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