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The first cold sore I ever got was when I was 15. It was the first and last cold sore I've ever had. Now I might have genital herpes. I'm still waiting for the results but what are the chances it's hsv-1? I've been with my current partner for about a year and he's never showed any signs or symptoms of anything except eczema on his shaft and sometimes some raw spots from masterbating too vigorously. I've never been with anyone with odd spots or marks or bumps or lumps on or around their penis or scortum. I'm very thorough as I want to know what I'm about to put in me so to speak. He's really the only one that I've noticed have any type of oddity in the penile region but he says he's never had anything resembling herpes. I don't think he's ever been tested. He did cheat on me back in November but says he knows she is clean (ex who he says is the town whore). I don't want any advice on that part we'very already moved pasted it. But my questions are A-could it be the cold sore Ive had years ago but down there? B-Could he have it and not know or have no symptoms and give it to me? C- does this mean he cheated again and got it from someone and isn't showing symptoms yet? D-If my blood test comes back negative does this mean I'm newly infected? E- Am I doomed to never have sex again? Ps-the symptoms started after he stuck a dirty lotion covered finger in my vagina and the spots have stayed right where he poked me. 

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On 3/21/2017 at 5:52 AM, Displaynamepublic said:

The first cold sore I ever got was when I was 15. It was the first and last cold sore I've ever had. Now I might have genital herpes. I'm still waiting for the results but what are the chances it's hsv-1? I've been with my current partner for about a year and he's never showed any signs or symptoms of anything except eczema on his shaft and sometimes some raw spots from masterbating too vigorously. I've never been with anyone with odd spots or marks or bumps or lumps on or around their penis or scortum. I'm very thorough as I want to know what I'm about to put in me so to speak. He's really the only one that I've noticed have any type of oddity in the penile region but he says he's never had anything resembling herpes. I don't think he's ever been tested. He did cheat on me back in November but says he knows she is clean (ex who he says is the town whore). I don't want any advice on that part we'very already moved pasted it. But my questions are A-could it be the cold sore Ive had years ago but down there? B-Could he have it and not know or have no symptoms and give it to me? C- does this mean he cheated again and got it from someone and isn't showing symptoms yet? D-If my blood test comes back negative does this mean I'm newly infected? E- Am I doomed to never have sex again? Ps-the symptoms started after he stuck a dirty lotion covered finger in my vagina and the spots have stayed right where he poked me. 

No the cold sore didnt transfer down to your genitals. Your boyfriend seems to be infected in this cases. Based on the description you gave us about his symptoms. 

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Take of yourself get tested. Is there any sore to swab? If B recent infection blood test sometimes takes time to show new infection. 

On Tuesday, March 21, 2017 at 8:52 AM, Displaynamepublic said:

The first cold sore I ever got was when I was 15. It was the first and last cold sore I've ever had. Now I might have genital herpes. I'm still waiting for the results but what are the chances it's hsv-1? I've been with my current partner for about a year and he's never showed any signs or symptoms of anything except eczema on his shaft and sometimes some raw spots from masterbating too vigorously. I've never been with anyone with odd spots or marks or bumps or lumps on or around their penis or scortum. I'm very thorough as I want to know what I'm about to put in me so to speak. He's really the only one that I've noticed have any type of oddity in the penile region but he says he's never had anything resembling herpes. I don't think he's ever been tested. He did cheat on me back in November but says he knows she is clean (ex who he says is the town whore). I don't want any advice on that part we'very already moved pasted it. But my questions are A-could it be the cold sore Ive had years ago but down there? B-Could he have it and not know or have no symptoms and give it to me? C- does this mean he cheated again and got it from someone and isn't showing symptoms yet? D-If my blood test comes back negative does this mean I'm newly infected? E- Am I doomed to never have sex again? Ps-the symptoms started after he stuck a dirty lotion covered finger in my vagina and the spots have stayed right where he poked me. 

 

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