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Hello, I am a male trying to get an opinion, and I understand this does not count as a diagnosis. I just want to get some thoughts and opinions as this is a very scary time.

I recently had unprotected sex over the weekend. My partner had a STD test about 1.5 months ago and came back negative and STD free. Three days ago, I noticed a small lesion on my genitals. I have attached photos to help describe it. The lesion is not raised and never was a pimple-like structure. It has not changed a lot and the area has not developed more bumps nor spread over the last three days. I also have experienced pain when urinating.

During sex, she was in slight pain due to a tight fit between us and friction from rubbing. That makes me thing this may be due to friction, as in a small tear. She went to the doctor and found out she has a lesion on her cervix, but the doctor was unsure, so she sent for tests.

I would appreciate people's opinions on the matter. I will post more recent photos to aid in thoughts.

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Here is a more recent photo.
I again, I appreciate any feedback and opinions based on your own experiences. And thank you in advance, I'm sure you have a lot better things to do than look at some young guy's junk. xD

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That's how mine presented, not a 'typical' blister, more like a chunk of skin had been dug out. Just reduced in size over the week, no scabbing or crust formation.

 I'm a girl though, doubt that matters. Type 1 also.

 

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