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So I was wondering something........my partner and I both have  ghsv2 and I know I can't give him something he already has but if I was getting over an OB or had one and not know it (mine are so mild I never know I have one at times) and we have unprotected sex is there a chance he could break out from mine? I know you shouldn't have sex while having an Ob but if we both have type 2 and if my OB wasn't in a spot that would interfere with sex then is it still ok to have fun? 

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This is a very good question. In theory he could still get an OB, but it wouldn't be as bad as if he did not have any immune defense against HSV2 at all. It should be okay if you play safe but it is riskier.

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16 minutes ago, VVK said:

This is a very good question. In theory he could still get an OB, but it wouldn't be as bad as if he did not have any immune defense against HSV2 at all. It should be okay if you play safe but it is riskier.

Thx for your response. I don't always know I have one so this is good to know. Also if he would happen to get one how would he know it's from me or one on his own if I can't feel or see mine. Ugh this gift we have!

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