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I have to admit, it is still hard at times. but if you think too much, it can make you go nuts. Today I had one of those moments and I did good and stopped thinking about it and decided to concentrate hard at work. At first it was real hard but I have a few years under my belt and slowly have learned how to deal with it. How are you doing? 

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It's only been a few months since I found out and most of the time I can forget about it and focus on other things but today was one of those days i just couldn't focus on anything else. It just makes me feel sad and a little angry I'm going to be dealing with this the rest of my life.

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For me as an older person basically I just realise that there are worse things than it could be and there are worse off people in the world.  It takes time and recognising why its hard.  What bothers you the most about it?  It's like anything with problem solving what is the problem and it how can it be resolved.  I think sometime this perspective is always a good thing when it comes to herpes and also not making assumptions about how people will view you. 

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20 minutes ago, rachbby26 said:

It's only been a few months since I found out and most of the time I can forget about it and focus on other things but today was one of those days i just couldn't focus on anything else. It just makes me feel sad and a little angry I'm going to be dealing with this the rest of my life.

Life will get better, hsv is extremely common.and you arnt alone. You'll be surprised how many around you carry hsv. Most people don't know they have it because testing isn't a regular (especially in the UK where I'm at the dismiss it at the clinics) . Hopefully we can help here talking about it all, cause it's hard for anyone to start with.

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It really is a time thing and putting it into perspective and educating yourself about it there are many people who come on support group sites and disappear pretty quickly because it does get easier

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14 hours ago, rachbby26 said:

It's only been a few months since I found out and most of the time I can forget about it and focus on other things but today was one of those days i just couldn't focus on anything else. It just makes me feel sad and a little angry I'm going to be dealing with this the rest of my life.

1st up its the most common infection and one in eight people have .. its good u got diagnosed coz a stagerring 90 percent dont know they have it so pretty much everyone has it .. maybe ur next boyfriend or husband will also have it if he is sexually active .. i would be happy if theres a cure but its okay even if we dont have it now .. transmitting it to others depends on a persons inmune system and u cant really do anything full proof about it so stop worrying and live ur life to the fullest 

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On 28/04/2017 at 5:21 AM, rachbby26 said:

How is everyone dealing with their diagnosis emotionally? Having some difficulty dealing with my diagnosis.

 

I think the best thing to remember is that the vast majority of people have either hsv1 or hsv2. The only difference is that you presumably got some sores and bothered to get them diagnosed. Most people either get no symptoms or don't get them diagnosed.

Try out the medication your doctor offers if your symptoms return, you might find you only get symptoms for the first few years and, with any luck, they will disappear after. You'll then just again be like those people who carry one of the strains and have no symptoms.

It's also worth remembering that you might have had this a long time. Even if an outbreak occurred after a recent sexual experience that doesn't prove things one way or the other. If you had had it a number of years but it just now started troubling you, that's a good excuse to focus your energy oon fitness and health. That will improve your immune system and hopefully help you reduce or stop symptoms.

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studying propolis , royal jelly and pollen .  bee products  ..   little buggers break down and mix tree sap and plants .  even pine sap .  natural virus antibiotic and such ..  they make the bee's gp through filter and it knocks off the pollen into little baby pills .  protein and all the flavonoids from many plants and more . retool jelly turns normal bee into a queen .. see it on wikipedia saying it helps  the h .  cure is natural based .    just think of the hint . this sight is called honey comb . lol. th sick bastards just say  bee's help h .  lol.  looking really good ...  need to experiment with it .. guy with rotting skin . mans antibiotics did nothing , but manuka smeared on it cured it fast .. nz health .  great for h put other bee products work good from any where , pollen , jelly and propolis is good i know  . no way to recreate what they do . digestible . micro pollens and saps .. time to get into business before it takes off.  just allergies . sell pollen from spring and pollen for fall . you have to take it early .  local bee's tree you for local allergies ..  bee's are the answer .  dose up so often .   

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