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Feels like body and hope for future falling apart. How much of this is HSV?

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Long story short since I was diagnosed almost a year ago I've had little to no visible symptoms but have had lower abdominal cramping (similar to period cramps), some tingling and itching most especially around the rectum along with anal fissures that won't heal, increased bloating,- which I am just now wondering whether it may be linked to hsv- and lots of discharge which is heavier some days than others and drives me nuts. During sex, my feelings range from pain (deep inside) to numbness. 

I have a pre-existing condition (severe asthma) which makes it hard for me to work since I am so triggered by artificial fragrances like perfume and other indoor and outdoor pollutants. I have always been strong despite this and worked hard, but now I am beginning to feel more defeated and hopeless than ever. I have such pain and cramps in my abdomen which I am continuing to take medicines for (my gyno just gave me a medicine for yeast infections. I kind of doubt that will work but in hopes to avoid long term damage of the reproductive organs associated with PID or cervicitis I am willing to try anything) that I must lay down occasionally. I must do this also after I eat due to gastrointestinal problems. I've always had issues with acid reflux, but lately the bloating part has seemed worse. Also, I seem to be more allergic to things. For instance, after drinking any kind of beer at all, my face will be swollen and puffy the next day. Also, I seem to be getting sick more than I did before. My last period was so intense I was wailing and in tears. I have never had such a horrible one. Is this all down to systemic inflammation caused by the virus?

How much of this is linked to hsv? Am I being paranoid? I feel like I am going crazy imagining my compounded disabilities now and feeling totally unattractive and useless and I am very worried I may never be able to enjoy sex again and the lack of a stable future this will cause because lets face it, I really do rely on men due to the fact I have existing physical limitations. Aside from sex, I am worried about just being able to walk around without pain and pass as a normal person in society! Can anyone relate to these symptoms? Any suggestions? I am thinking I need to be more aggressive in my followup with my gyno. I am so worried my internal pain won't go away.

BTW I am currently taking Valtrex, 500 mg per day along with other supplements like Vit C, Zinc, lysine, Vitamin B assorted, Vit D and about to try oil oregano as well as birth control. I take regular baths with things like baking soda and tea tree oil but its not always easy to get the water inside if you know what I mean. Suggestions from people with similar experiences? I am considering becoming vegan and doing anything in my power to live a normal life despite all this.  Any and all input would be appreciated. Thanks for your help.

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The bloating could be something to do with your intestines or bowels.  It could be the food that you are eating that is causing that but I would go and see maybe a herbal specialist. I don't know if you have natropaths but I get a lot of bloating and it is because of certain foods but there is also sometimes I get parasites that need a supplement to clear that out.  

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