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Could I possibly have caught HSV-2

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Ry5454

So I had performed oral sex on a guy and noticed he had a sore after i had already started. I stopped immediately after i saw it and was wondering if I were to catch herpes would it only be on the mouth since I was giving oral? Or is there a possibility I could get it on my thighs/genitals as well? All I performed was oral.

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WilsoInAus

Sores can be many, many things. Genital to oral transmission represents a very low chance.

The virus is localised at site of infection, hence if a person gets oral herpes then that's where it stays.

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Ry5454
11 minutes ago, WilsoInAus said:

Sores can be many, many things. Genital to oral transmission represents a very low chance.

The virus is localised at site of infection, hence if a person gets oral herpes then that's where it stays.

That gives me relief. One bump appeared on my thigh and it had made me nervous ever since i noticed it. Then i think my anxiety made me think i had symptoms for genital herpes so i have just been freaking out ever since.

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WilsoInAus

Anxiety! Biggest threat to good health there is.

Try to calm down, if there are no issues say within a week with your mouth you can safely disregard herpes. 

You may already have oral HSV-1 that would have also reduced infection chances if there was one at all.

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Disc0rdant
1 hour ago, Ry5454 said:

So I had performed oral sex on a guy and noticed he had a sore after i had already started. I stopped immediately after i saw it and was wondering if I were to catch herpes would it only be on the mouth since I was giving oral? Or is there a possibility I could get it on my thighs/genitals as well? All I performed was oral.

You could spread it from mouth to other parts of your body.  It is possible.  The odds of getting hsv2 on the mouth is said to be lower.  They say that hsv2 prefers downstairs.  The rules dont always get followed.  Test before sex.  Respect him and you

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WilsoInAus

Can you spread it from the mouth to other parts of the body? What sort of chances? Zero, 1 in a billion?

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Disc0rdant

On initial infection, it can totally spread.  THAT.  Is a fact.  Proven and documented.  As recently as Mexico in the last 12 mos.  Terri Warren cites that as well even though she doesnt know everything.  She says auto innoculation(spreading it to other parts of your body) happens in the 1st 4 months.

I am not saying you have hsv2, the odds are low....  But.  If you have it orally, it can be transmitted to other parts.  

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Lisajd

The question related to an issue after performing oral sex. As wilso said more like she already has hsv1 or its a mouth ulcer from oral.  

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