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Twilight3052

I found out I had herpes almost a year ago.. I feel depressed a lot and I cry all the time.. I've only had 2 outbreaks maybe since I found out.. but I feel alone in this world.. the guy that I was with for 2 yrs still won't get tested bc he feels like he doesn't have it and he's scared to find out but he takes my meds and a we are no longer together.. I always feel like my life is over and no other man will want me. I have no children and I always fear that when men find out that I have herpes they will think I'm nasty or be afraid to touch me.. only a few friends and family know my status and they always say it will be ok.. but no one understands how embarrassing and painful it is to have to disclose to someone and not know if you will be rejected or not.. 

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Faitheals_

Have you ever told a guy to see how he's going to react?

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Twilight3052

I have he acted calm.. he didn't get too upset..but he said he afraid to get tested but I always tell him he's not alone.. but he won't get treatment besides from taking my meds..

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Faitheals_

You should try dating again. These are only a couple messages, but these guys know about the condition 

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Twilight3052

Very sweet.. but how do have the TALK.. and my friends always say herpes is a part of you not who you are. It it's difficult to differentiate 

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eightyfour

Everyone goes through the initial stage of depression, but it will get better if you truly want it to. Become your own success story. In one year from now, do you want to come back on this website and post a story to others about how you succeeded? What would that look like? How will you accomplish it? If you want to talk, I'm willing, and so are plenty of others.

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Twilight3052

I am always willing to talk.. it helps me.. no matter how much I talk to my sister she will. Ever understand.. I have to just have a positive impact on this..

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medicalanonymo
14 hours ago, Twilight3052 said:

I am always willing to talk.. it helps me.. no matter how much I talk to my sister she will. Ever understand.. I have to just have a positive impact on this..

@Twilight3052

In 3 months you will feel better, in 6 months you will better and better, in 1 year you will feel better and better and better, in the long run you will be just fine ..

Everyone has finite time in this world. Everything including sex has limted time. Consider sex life is taken a back seat that's all but you still have so much to do friends, family, work, business, adventure, travel, research, networking, children etc ..

 

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