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 need help. I've been dating this guy for a few months and we have been getting along really well. I told him I was newly diagnosed HSV and he was initially accepting. But now he's Facebook messaged me saying it's fucked, I should have told him earlier (I told him date 5), and that a Nurse has told him you'd have to be stupid to sleep with someone with Herpes and he's now believing what she is saying. I'm completely broken.

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Nightmare7575

Send him as much information as you can and tell him if he really wants to be with you then read it,you might also find every non-risky sexual activity you two can do together and make a list tell him,how does this sound to you.We are asking people to take a risk on us,there is no doubt about it and we cannot say for sure 100 percent they will not get it .The nurse was 100 percent unprofessional and should have given him info to make an educated choice.  

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JBnATL

Ask him if he has ever had mono, chicken pox or a cold sore, if he has then he is a Herpster too. 

Here are two links to send him that will educate him about the risk he will face.  Unfortunately he is relying on a misinformed medical professional.

https://herpesopportunity.com/downloads/herpes-opportunity-disclosure-handout.pdf

http://hsvblog.org/herpes-simplex-virus-101/

If he doesn't come around to realize what he might lose, then it is his loss.

JB

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Lisajd

If he is angry with you because it took you till date 5 to tell him then what sort of person is this guy not very understanding although how long have you known each other for.  I would have to agree and ask him if he's ever had a cold sore before.  

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Dilan Melia
On ‎7‎/‎10‎/‎2017 at 8:30 AM, JBnATL said:

Ask him if he has ever had mono, chicken pox or a cold sore, if he has then he is a Herpster too. 

Here are two links to send him that will educate him about the risk he will face.  Unfortunately he is relying on a misinformed medical professional.

https://herpesopportunity.com/downloads/herpes-opportunity-disclosure-handout.pdf

http://hsvblog.org/herpes-simplex-virus-101/

If he doesn't come around to realize what he might lose, then it is his loss.

JB

Thank you, after reading this i feel a much better feeling

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Wtfisthisplease

I work with a lot of nurses who have no clue. I just took a CPR renewel course with a nurse last night and questioned how she even received her license, she was that lost. The guy you're dating doesn't sound mature or well informed at all. You shouldn't have to sell yourself to someone to have sex with them. Be open and honest and the right person will accept you, for you.

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