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Dreamer10

Good Convo on Social Media after Usher Newd

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Dreamer10

When I first saw an article regarding Usher and Herpes I mentally prepared myself for all the nasty to follow. It's there, boy oh boy it's there l but I am seeing a lot of really good conversations regarding the truth about Herpes. I was literally laughing about some of the misinformation but many are being educated about it.  Like me prior to my diagnosis most don't know anything about other than what they see on television.  

No matter how he or the young lady acquired it for me is not the issue but I think it's horrible that their personal medical history is being thrown out there.  For most of us our biggest fear is people finding out so it's a horrible to be outed.  I truly think my Giver knew he had it so I can sympathize with being pissed about non disclosure but I also accept that I knew the risk involved with sex so I accept percentage of comparative negligence. 

Glad the conversations are being had!

 

 

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Lisajd

I belong to a few sg.  Its upset some especially the less informative articles.  In australia ive not seen or heard about it.  

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Nightmare7575

I think once it goes to court it can be  public record and since he is a mega star then its going to be HUGE and all over. His lawyers may have put it out to try to stop her and embarrass her or her lawyers may have put the info out to do the same.  .  

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